Do you think it's rude to stare at someone eating?
By Morbidbabe
@Morbidbabe (511)
United States
October 29, 2008 10:33am CST
I have always hated people watching my eat, i've had a lot of people just sit there and stare constantly. I mean it could be until I leave the place! I use to hate it because my fiance did the same thing, but now I don't care about him. I just hate that everyone else stares at me. I had a problem with it in middle school and high school also I would wait to get home to eat.
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@psspurgeon1 (1109)
• United States
29 Oct 08
I hate it too. One time my husband and I went to Steak n Shake to eat. We ate there like once a week before we had kids. Anyway, there was this guy in there, granted his elevator didn't go all the way to the top but still, he didn't take his eyes off of me the entire time I was there. Well, back in my rude days I was lippy and bold so I told him to stop staring at me. He continued. I told him louder and ruder and he continued. Finally, I just exploded at this guy and may have called him every name in the "bad book of namecalling". Then, the manager came to see what was happening. I explained that I felt extremely uncomfortable that this man would not stop staring at me, even then at that moment. He told me that the man did nothing to me but due to my behavior I was never ever to return to that restaurant for the rest of my life. They actually made us leave about a year later cause someone remembered me. Isn't that crappy. This guy, who only buys coffee and sits there for hours at atime, gets to continue making people uncomfortable. So, we just choose not to go there now that my ban is no longer in effect.
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@Morbidbabe (511)
• United States
29 Oct 08
Wow, I would have done the same thing! That is really stupid that they made you leave and not him. I believe you should be comfortable when your out somewhere and if he should have asked the man to stop staring and if he didn't to leave. I'm sorry about your experience, I hate people like that and man what a jerk of a manager.
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@Morbidbabe (511)
• United States
29 Oct 08
I agree and that is exactly what they do! It makes me want to scream sometimes
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@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
29 Oct 08
yes, I do think its rude. Its usualy rude to stare , period a people. Just like t is to be pointing. Thats what my mom taught us. I dont like to be stared at, do you?

@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
29 Oct 08
That must have been terribly uncomfortable and i is in very bad taste and extremly ill mannered for someone to do that to anyone. My mom, would spank us quick for showing disrespect. It was a lesson taught quick that we are not to be rude.
@Morbidbabe (511)
• United States
29 Oct 08
The same thing was in my family that's why I really hate when people do it.
@Morbidbabe (511)
• United States
29 Oct 08
Yes I hate being stared at even if I'm not eating, but it happens all the time and sometimes just like the other day my fiancee and I went to eat and it was a buffet so when we go there this whole family sitting near us stared at us until we got up and disappeared out of their site and they continued until we left. It was creepy and rude..I think they said a few things about us too. Er.
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