relations

India
October 30, 2008 1:35am CST
I m from last 3-4 month in my lot & i got one of the good & honest freind who lives in jakarta(indonacia).I m indian & she is indonacian.Our language is diffrent,even she don't know english.She is a good & honest girl while looking to her face in photo.She knows english somehow I.e so..so..She sent me so many photoes for my request,but till date i hv not sent a single photo to her,not demanded by herself also.But from last one & half month, i proposed her to merry with me,as she wanted to merry at the earliest with not specified till date & she has not found any person to merry with her till date,as she talked to me.But she had not answered me atlest she wants to merru with me or not.i regularly write her,but she changes her subjects & write abt any other subjects.I don't know why she do this,But i know that she love me but cannot express me,due to indonecian or objection of parents.I tried to call her parents on web cambut till date she not brought them.Will u suggest me what i to do?
2 responses
@subha12 (18441)
• India
30 Oct 08
I am not sure how on which fact basis have committed. it is possible to get life partner here. if both of you are ok with it, then go ahead. also be careful in seeing all aspects
• India
31 Oct 08
Subhaji, Good morning & hv a nice day.Thanks for ur responce & i m sure that i will be care full in the matter as u hv suggested.But onething that i hv seen here & chat with her,but she hd not seen me because i don't hv a webcam.But v r regularly chat with each other & sharing eachother all the metters like a good & honest freind..so i confussed what to do?ok thanks for ur kind responce. anil
@alottodo (3056)
• Australia
30 Oct 08
I really suggest to you not to do anything at the moment. What I would suggest [ in the meantime] is for both of you to learn some English so you can communicate properly with each other.And a question for you. How do you know a person is honest just by looking at her photo? and agree to marry someone you don't even know? I would honestly say [ what is wrong with you?] or should I say [ what is right with you?]
• India
31 Oct 08
Alottodo, thnaks for ur responce I will take care of myself while diciding final decisions.I m sure taht there will be some solution & god sent me one of the freind,residing in jakarta & he might be help me in the matter.