Who gets more attention? a lover or a wife?

men figure the lover isnt bound by a license to them and can leave quicker. not to mention they find their affair very exciting (at the time) and dont want to lose out on the freshness.. but thats just a guess.. wives some times gets extra attention than norm because her hubby buys her gifts out of guilt

hi mercury .. man takes his wife for "Granted" that she will be there no matter what he does, this is very true in Asian Countries especially the housewifes ... the man has to give more attention to the "lover" because they fear, this lover will move on to find another better, richer, good looking man as there is no commitment in the relationship ... Man seem to forget, if they want a extra attractive wife, they can spend 1/2 the money they spend on lover and send your wife for massages, facial or even buy her jwellery she could look better than the lover ... Here the concept of lover, i will look as mistress ... well the mistress job is being "mistress" and entertainment for you ... The wifes duty, is as your partner, mother, daughter in law ... and financial controller to save some money for the old age ... cheers

That is the price a woman pays when they become a wife. No, just kidding. lol. Men like to look at beautiful girls so I guess the reason behind this is when the wife took it for granted that the husband will always loves her not matter how she looks. The lover, on the other hand, will always want to look her best to get the attention of the other woman's husband.

lover is just committed and wife is in next stage of commited, so taking chances with wife is always on higher side than lover. i feel this makes the difference in lover and wife. but both are equally important insight for a man

that is lust more than love. If the person know the real love means sure he'll go to hell and back for her before and after marriage. Its the lust that always made us feel the attention is gone because they're attached and lots of thing to take care rather than love itself.

The lover uaually young and more nice