Crush on elders

India
November 1, 2008 6:09am CST
what if you had a crush on a girl who is elder to you? is it right to propose her or leave it saying she is not for me? or is it completely wrong to have a crush on a girl who is elder than us?
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6 responses
• India
1 Nov 08
crush on eleder girls is just to make fun with her..u might be havinga strong desire inside and ua re not ready to take risk .thts why its coming like that..It gives u a great pleasure when its an elde girl.it wil be safe and highly hot..
@abyin007 (426)
• India
1 Nov 08
i dont find anything bad in this. but this is good if u r doing for joke. but let me tell u one thing, if u r choosing her as a partner, then there are large chance for family problems....
@Galena (9110)
1 Nov 08
why on Earth would the woman being older cause any problems that the man being older wouldn't cause. in many ways, it is better when the woman is older, and in others it is better if the man is. so it all balances out to mean a big fat nothing. my mum is 12 years older than my stepdad, and there is no trouble with that whatsoever.
@borgborg (821)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
That depends on how old you are also... If you are under 18 then you might want to start "crushing" on somebody else! That's a crime!!! Hehe! But seriously, I think nowadays its starting to become a fad amongst older girls, in which they created a new term "cougar"! But hey! if you are really into that person and her age does not matter to you then go for it! As long as your happy!
@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
1 Nov 08
this topic had been raised many times in the forum and i think this is at least the 3rd time i am replying to this similar question. in short, i should summarise, love is blind, love knows no colour, no boundaries, no age and need no reason. so u can guess my answer
• Australia
1 Nov 08
Age is just a number. Love is never wrong. I say go for it! A couple of years ago I had a boyfriend who was 4 years younger. Now I have a husband who is 6 years older. I didn't notice the age difference with either of 'em. It's all about how old you FEEL!