Can Friends Become Lovers?

@vimaal (3365)
India
November 1, 2008 10:10am CST
Hi friends, how are you.? Can Friends become lovers.? It is Right or Wrong.? Share your commends..
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8 responses
@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
2 Nov 08
It is really nice to find friendship in your lover best way I know to have a happy union!
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
I guess there's nothing wrong with it. And for me, it's really much better if lovers do start as friends. It's because they have been used to each other. They know the true color of each other (they don't have to hide anything since they knew each other well). And I think it will be a good relationship.
• United States
2 Nov 08
of course they can.. some couples got together by being friends first.. me and my hubby consider each other our best friends
@hitejam89 (523)
• India
1 Nov 08
hi Vimal. i think friends can become lovers and i dont think there is anything wrong with that, if they like eachother, why even care whether its right or wrong.
@oderog (733)
• Kenya
1 Nov 08
It come happens, it normally happens for two good friends to become lovers in this scenario you will get that both of them do not have lovers and hence feel lonely, but now there behaviour is going to change towrds each other and much of respect that they accorded each other will be compromise.
@marty3888 (2358)
• United States
1 Nov 08
I think so. In fact a lot of people say you should be friends first, then take it to the next level. But it jut makes sense if you're compatible as friends and maybe the both of you have had bad luck with other relationships, why not. The thing or things that make your friendship work so well may be the same thing that make a relationship work. The only thing is, I believe if for whatever reason that relationship does not work out, you can't go back to being just friends. At least I can't imagine being just friends with my gf after we've been together as couple for so long.
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
I guess, that's the best formula... You should become good friends first before becoming lovers with this the relationship is stronger and the bond is better. I have seen so many people who entered relationships and always failed cause they are not friends with their partners. Friends in a sense that you do things together without expecting in return. Then if you feel like you're happy being together, becoming lovers can never be difficult. Understanding one another is also easy. Surely the bonding, the friendship and the relationship will be a more meaningful one...
• China
1 Nov 08
Of course YES, but you should cearly sure that is love or friendship.Good luck.