what would stop you from falling in love again?

Philippines
November 1, 2008 11:11am CST
being in love and being loved in return is a wonderful feeling, knowing that someone other than your family and closest friends love you as you are. though some who experience love but the love didn't last for some reasons are afraid to fall in love again. i could be that they are afraid of falling and losing love again or they have their own personal reason. what would stop you from falling in love again?
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@messageme (2821)
• United States
10 Nov 08
My personal reason would be because right now I think I found Mr. Right (seriously) but recently we have had a couple problems and if in the end it don't work out I don't think I would want to date again because it always seems it ends. To me I would feel like I would be wasting my time and I wouldn't want to go through the same ol pain again. I learn from my mistakes and I just don't think I could put myself in the same situation again. But Mostly I couldn't do it to my kids. My oldest son has been through three of my boyfriends and I would never put him through another!! I would stay single the rest of my life and if not single I would definitly not get involved enough with someone to bring them home. I know I can truely honestly say that.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
i can see where you are coming from just be thankful that you have your kids with you and if ever you relationship won't work just concentrate on your kids and be the best mom that they can ever have. thanks for the post!!!
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
after a heartache, its normal to feel pain. but i believe that dwelling on the pain is another issue. if you stuck yourself of the fear of feeling pained, then you are depriving yourself of happiness that might come your way. for me, i will go beyond the pain and still gamble in love. being afraid will just cripple me and i dont want that to happen to my life. when you love, its expected that you will also be hurt, but dont let that hurt cripple you.
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
friends that's true we shouldn't stop ourself from falling in love risk and hurts are bound to happen but this doesn't mean we will stop loving. thanks for the post!!!
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
i would love again and again... im the kind of person who doesnt learn, when talking about heartaches...when i was younger, and was so brokenhearted, that didnt stop me from falling again... well, as they say, it's better to love than not to have loved at all...
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
that's true no matter how hurtful and painful the experienced that we have stil we do not stop from falling in love. thanks for the post!!!
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
I don't think i have the reason to stop falling in love even i don't have someone special in my life yet there's alot of reasons to love. love is always in there. Love on family and friends. Although i agree that sometimes it fails but it's part of loving...keep on loving!
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
thanks for the post!!! happy mylotting!!!
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
nothing can stop me from falling in love again. despite every pain and unsuccessful relationship that i've been through. i would never stop hoping for that romantic love that everyone is yearning for. thus, life is full of great things that however tragic your past relationship or love experience is, you will still hope and wait to find that person. one who can love you unconditionally.
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
that's the spirit!!! keep on loving!!!
@Tianna2 (1273)
• United States
1 Nov 08
People generaly feel that they can only handle so much hurt and after a while they dont feel its worth the trouble. Being hurt by a loved one can be like a knife going right through your heart and after happening so many times why would a person leave themselves open to such pain. I know the love can make it worthwhile, but its always a gamble to offer yourself up. You either get the joy of a lifetime or great pain, or just not take the chance any more. For me I still have hope that my prince may come, I'm hoping soon! Hugs, Tianna
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
thanks for sharing your thoughts. i know how it feels being in love and being hurt i have been into that situation before that i have to guard my heart for more than 4 years but my prince came and i realized that he is worth it. hope you'll find yours too. Keep on hoping!!! :)
• China
1 Nov 08
If you experience once and failed. You will have the shadow in you mind. You remind yourself that you will be hurt again. Then you won't fall in love again.
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
thnaks for the post!!!
@jesbellaine (4155)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
I think it would be the fear of getting hurt again with someone you really love... but hope not... hope he would stay. Thanks. Happy Mylotting!
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
ones you experience being hurt out of love it is usually a normal reaction to protect oneself of experiencing the hurt all over again but being in fear will not help us to be a stronger and better person. wish you all the best in your current relationship. work it out with your partner and it will surely last. thanks for the post!!!