marriege

No I don't think that you should stay together it creates a negative energy and the kids can feel it they arent stupid. Kids know alot more then they let on.

I do not think that people should stay married because of the kids. My parents split when I was 12 and I was happy for my mom when my dad left. Yeah it was hard seeing my family split up but he was so bad to my mom and it always hurt to see her so sad all the time. I couldn't stand to see how he treated her, how he cheated on her- the split was the best thing for her and for us. I know people think that it's better for the kids but that's not always the case anyone who says otherwise has never been in that situation before. Your kids do not need to see you a mess everyday of your life- that will hurt them just as much as a divorce.