how to build good relationships
By wujinbo
@wujinbo (341)
China
November 1, 2008 10:50pm CST
when i am at university ,i dont know what to do about building a good relationship.beaucause i am shy,so i dont make any friends,or someone doesnt want to make friends with me .now i just have a friend ,i felt so lonely,always be at room to be online,someone can tell me what to make some friends and keep a good relationship,i want to be friends with me and happy everyday.........
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3 responses
@kheyanne (287)
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
Friends can be obtained with a simple smile. Forget all about your shyness and disappointments. Treat everything like a game where you lose or you win. When you lose, don't feel so bad. You're going to win one day. You can apply that with friends too. Try to look at the person near you, smile, and strike a conversation. If you win him or her as a friend, you win. If not, then there's a lot of other people out there who are surely willing to be your friend.
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@lalaine829 (113)
• Philippines
2 Nov 08
hello wujinbo! welcome to myLot..You just have to be yourself and yes smiling can help a lot. I used to be this shy type of person who would just sit in one corner and doesn't mind other people around me because I feel inferior, not confident and most of all I am afraid that they would not accept me but things change when I started to smile to people which in turn smiled back at me. I have gained a lot of friends which have helped me out of my shell and be the best I can ever be. Happy myLotting.
@nilugo (348)
• Singapore
2 Nov 08
Try to loose your shyness and smile alot - smiling at people always makes them be more friendly towards you. Be yourself. Go out out of your flat more often - if you stay inside all the time, you will never make friends. Don't worry about what will happen if you become friends with someone, just go with the flow.
