when i decided to be more responsible and strong

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the idea of becoming more responsible really came to me when i decided to marry my husband. i am aware that marriage is not all bed of roses and that it also comes with a complete packaged of pain, trials adjustments. adjustments because different people has different attitude, culture and beliefs. so we have to adjusts to each of those to make this marriage work. pain because it is definite and it comes during the times that you least expect it to happen. trials makes the relationship stronger and it adds spice to what you have. it also enhance the closeness you both have. the greatest trial that we have was when our daughter was born. because we have different thoughts on the events that is happening to her and different decisions in some point.but we came to agree that as a couple we have to come up with a decision that is both practical and benefitial. we agreed to stay with our daughter till her last breath and it is one thing that we consider the best decision.that is also the most painful part of our life. and the most serious adjustment. we have become used of having her and it really pains us a few days after her interment because it is only where the real time for acceptance takes place. if this happened top you, how will you deal with it? how will you cope with the pain and misery that you're going through?