What is the worst break-up you ever had?

Philippines
November 3, 2008 7:03am CST
hi mylotters. break-up is really bad. it cause us pain. but sometimes a relationship has to end because it just doesnt meant to be. to you mylotters, can you share your worst break-up? thanks for sharing.
5 responses
@glords (2614)
• United States
4 Nov 08
My worst break up was with my highschool sweet heart. It was an ugly on and off relationship for years. I don't even know when the break up was finally official, but getting there really sucked. It was dramatic and awful in every way. I guess in a way we still hate each other for it, and of course we will always love each other.
@iamcdy (1120)
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
I think that no breakup can ever be worse than when it happen on your own birthday. I had that breakup seven years ago with my first boyfriend. I found out that he was having an affair with another girl and I found about it when I checked his cellphone. Even when I found out, he still denied it. I never trusted him ever again. Although I gave him a chance, our relationship didn't stay for long and totally called it quits 2 months after finding out what happened. I thought that time that, I can never bring things back to normal again. I can't give him my trust because each time I suspect that he is doing something bad again. It was hard for me and I know that it was over. I accepted the fact that not all relationships have a happy ending. After that, I moved on and finally, I am with someone more special in my life. I guess, everything happened for a reason and God has really better plans for me, or should I say, a better person for me to be with. And I've never been happier in my life.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
My worse break up is before I am going to marry my husband. Before him I have my old relationship with my ex boyfriend of four years long range. I love him really but when my husband got into my life my heart goes break into two because my ex is childish and my husband is mature and brainy and i love that kind of man. Well time has passed and my love go stronger to my husband but one time my ex searched me and when I saw him I feel guilty and I still love him on that time. He love me so much and always telling me he will always love me and never changed. With tears in his eyes he kissed me goodbye and turned away. So much pain, inside my heart with mixed emotion guilt and love. I really don't know what to do, and that was lasted when I have two kids already. My husband knows that.
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
My last break up isn't that tragic or what. We just broke up thru text messaging. It's sad that everything that you've been through will just end in a simple text message. But i'm okay now, and i never regret what happened.
• China
3 Nov 08
ya, it is really bad at that time, but you will be ok after the time goes by. i think so many people don't like to sharing that now, because the pain is always in the memories, but it changed to be a scar, don't feel bad any more, but it is alway here.