What are the relationship secrets of Happily Married Women?

when you have argument...make it a point that you settle the problem before you sleep. try to listen to one another too. if one is too angry then the other one should learn how to be calm and keep quiet. respect each others opinion and have an open communication.

Always discuss things between the couple. Respect each other. Laugh often - try to do romantic things off and on to keep the marriage happy. Trust each other.

my best advice is to talk talk talk. dont let the sun set on an argument. that much time with anger/sadness/whatever unhappiness can fester and create problems, better to stay up and discuss things and at least come to a halfway understanding (if not complete resolution) before calling it a day.

Once a wife is able to see the driving force behind her husband’s actions, whether it is his desire to provide for his family, his need to be cared for, his trouble verbalizing feelings or his inherent need to be right, she can adjust her communication style accordingly and get what she needs from him. For example, if a wife knows her husband is only able to see things in terms of problems and solutions, and she needs him to take out the trash, the most effective way for her to achieve her goal is to be direct and ask him to take out the trash. When she drops hints, hoping he will guess what she wants, she is setting herself up for frustration. By being upfront and working with her husband’s motivation, instead of trying to “fix” him and change his natural tendencies, she is saving herself extra work and getting her desires met.