Setting of Goals
By kerriannc
@kerriannc (4279)
Jamaica
November 3, 2008 12:30pm CST
Yet another month has pass. How many of our goals that we have set was achieved whether it was here in MYLOT or offline. I know that I have set some goals that were not achieved instead of seeing it being come to pass it has been smashed. Some might say that I have set unachievable goals but I know about those. I know that one should not try to set a goal that is too high as we would say in our native tongue "hang me hat wey it can't reach". But seriously I want to live a fulfilling life, one which is attending church and praising my God. One that I had five years ago and everytime I tried to take myself out of the situation that I found myself in I am still there. I tell myself that as of November I will be single again living back at my dad's and trying to pay off the bills that I incurred while I have the shop. I am not closer in paying off that bill. I went back home two weeks ago only to run back at my ex boyfriend's home because he has taken sick over the week end.
Am I strong enough to step over him and told him that I cannot care for him. I never have a hard heart and even now I am praying for a hard heart and still not receiving it. Spoke with my boss this morning and she told me that it is because I want to go back into my church why these things are happening so I need to be strong? I asked my self why does I have to had a caring side. This is one of my goals that I want to achieve before the year is done. Being single and living the life I used to enjoyed. Attending fellowship and praising my God.
Is it an achievable Goal? What do you think?
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5 responses
@leateagee (3667)
• China
4 Nov 08
I do believe that you have a strong determination. This month will be your month. You'll be able to achieve all those goals. There are things that are very difficult to let go especially if it is about the matters of the heart. But if you must ... do it. It is only you can do this.
I do set goals too but sometimes there are other errands that get into my way. I know I must be strict and needs to discipline myself. One of my goals is to be able to respond in mylot as often as I can. Have a great day and good luck in all your endeavors.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
19 Nov 08
Thank you so much my dear friend for this BR that you gave me. It is another inspiration to me and made me happy that there are real friends even though you don't see each othe rbut you support each other. If things did not work out well today, remember there is always tomorrow and its a brand new day! Take care =) Happy every day!!!
@fwidman (11514)
• United States
3 Nov 08
It is an achievable goal, but only after you give up trying to be your boyfriends savior. People get sick all the time. Are you going to run back to him every time he is sick? If you do, he will always be sick because he knows you will come back to him. You need to let him go, my friend. Then you can start to work on your life and make it better 
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
3 Nov 08
Hi fwidman, I am trying to let him go, I am really trying. It is not that I am in love with him, but to see that he is sick and no one is there to give him an helping hand. I will take your advice though. Thanks alot.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
4 Nov 08
I hope that god grants you all that you desire in your life, all that its good for you. © ronaldinu 2008
@arcidy (5005)
• United States
3 Nov 08
I didnt get to reach my goal for this month which was making the payout which would of been the first time that I reached it two times in a row. I didnt reach it because ive been pretty sick for the past couple of weeks and havent felt like posting on here or even felt like using my laptop. But oh well ill make it for this month which is my next goal.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
3 Nov 08
hello dear arcidy, I am sorry to hear that you were sick. I hope that you are feeling better now and I know that you will make the pay out for this month. Just take one day at a time. Drink some soup and you will be on your feet again. Thanks for your response.
@23uday (2997)
• India
19 Nov 08
Hi frnds,
in my life i have such goals to become good successer.I want to achieve my setting
goals in my life.In my life i have different kind of settings of goals.
i want reach all my goals iam vey happy.I will become success man of goals has achieved my fulfilled life.
