Friend always helps othes but dnt get any help
November 3, 2008 10:24pm CST
I have a very nice and dear friend of mine. He is very humble and very always helps his friends when ever they are in trouble but his friends take the disadvantage of him . They say that they are in trouble and take help from him. can any one plz tell me how can i stop him doing like this he always trust each and every person and just dont even care for his family...
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4 Nov 08
The problem with trying to stop him doing this is that he probably enjoys it. There are some things that I do that no one can understand why, but the fact remains that I enjoy doing them, and I wouldn't stop unless it was proven to me that what I'm doing is a problem. It's hard to prove to someone that enjoys helping and seeing other people happy because of something they did that they are being used. My advice is that if it's not affecting him too horribly, and he doesn't seem to mind helping these people, that you should just let it be. However, if he does seem to be bothered by it at all, perhaps you could make a suggestion that he only help people that really would do the same in return. I hope this helps you in some way, and good luck with helping your friend help himself. =)
4 Nov 08
hi.It feels bad when something happens like this with anybody.But your friend is lucky that he got a friend like you who cares about him.ya tell him to try to understand people and know them better before trusting them.Hope he will understand you and will understand what you want to say. Happy mylotting. keep smiling.