love?or your parents?
@christina1989 (462)
China
November 3, 2008 11:04pm CST
one question,if you fall in love with somebody,but you marry him or her means you have to abandon your own family.it may becacause your family don't like him or her,or he or she live far from your family,if you marry ,you can not see you parents,your relatives,your friends again,would you marry that guy?
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
Love and marriage can be a problem in some cultures. I think that things can be resolved properly in the long run. Cheers!!
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
When you marry a person, you commit yourself to that person. You don't really abandon your family. The guy should not dictate to you not to see your parents. yes, you will be having a family of your own, but they ARE still your parents and they gave life to you. One should marry somebody who will love your family as your own and vise versa. If he does not accept your parents and other family members, I suggest you think real hard if you will push through with marrying him. 
You might end up regretting your decision later on in life.
You might end up regretting your decision later on in life. 
@rsa101 (40962)
• Philippines
4 Nov 08
That is a tough question to answer but it really depends on how you take things on your own. Where do you think would you find your happiness with? With your family or with your loved one? That is a decision that each and every person would answer differently and every choice is a correct decision because there is not right or wrong answer to this question.
Try to evaluate too which opinions are more true, your family or your lover. that may guide you from deciding what is right for you.
