why do single woman go after married men?

China
November 4, 2008 9:25am CST
I've seen this happen but not often. I'm sure it depends on the circumstances. I've not seen single women targeting men because they are old and married, but rather because they are weathy and happen to be older and married. It's just the nature of the business.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
5 Nov 08
why do u think it's the woman. i've seen more married men go after the ladies. of course they probably lie about being married at first.
• Malaysia
5 Nov 08
I think there are a few reasons why women like to go after married men. First, married men are more stable in their financial. Some married men have a steady job, steady income and they have already purchased their assets. For example they already have their own car and house. Many single men are still searching for jobs. They don't have much savings and they haven't bought any assets like cars and houses yet. Second, many married men are more sensitive and more romantic to their wife. This is because the men had gained experience through their marriage life and learned from their mistakes. That is why they are more understanding than single men. Single men on the other hand are still not sure what romantic means. Third, married men are more tolerant and patient. The older they get, the more patient they will be (in general). It is normal for this situation to happen because generally everybody will slow down when they get older. If I have to chose, I would not choose married men. But I like to marry men older than me who have financial stability, wise and loving. But now I have my own husband so I don't have to think about this matter. Lol!
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
4 Nov 08
Because they are lonely and they have no life to go to.. They also want money and fame..
@hildas (3031)
4 Nov 08
Yes, I know quiet a few women (friends actually) that go after married men, only for their money. I think it is an awful thing to do. I think it is a challenge to win him to take and lure him away. A sensible man will stay away from these women, but there is always a few that get lead astray. I am sure a few married men do fall in love with single girls, and that cannot be prevented, but most of them see a younger model or better looking one and fall hook line and sinker for these horrible girls. If I found out a man was married, (even if he was rich and famous) I would walk away. You play with fire. You get burned.
@wujinbo (341)
• China
4 Nov 08
because the woman is looking at the married man's weathy and his possession.it is a nature ,we are in the society ,the society is in a business activity.so we cant avoid it,the woman has their right to do so ,because it is not a illegal action. but i think they are not in happy time.