From what your relationship is in danger?
By arialgrs
@arialgrs (130)
Greece
November 5, 2008 10:41pm CST
1.Friends and family
To someone doing well with its environment is a crucial point and needs sufficient attention.
2.Rivals
A couple is by definition by two but many people attend to forget it.
3.Annoying habits
As time passes these bad habits of your partner are becoming increasingly evident to the point of getting angry.
4.Excessive intimacy
The routine of cohabitation sometimes negatively affect to the relationship. Different targets can cause conflicts.
5.The past
If one of the two of you compare him with other past relationships, then the future is dark.
6.Rush
Some people push their relationship to proceed faster than it stands.
7.Dependence and independence
When you feel that the other is the center of your life, did a little back. Otherwise he will soon feel the need for some air.
8.Infidelity
Not many people have outgrown it. Despite the oaths that cannot happen again, will always both feel that the other will one day do it again.
What is your opinion?
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@unfathomablesisa (250)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
you pointed out specific and useful criteria. well, i guess, our relationship is currently in danger because of the past. i've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now, and even though none of us have had boyfriends and girlfriends before, i know he still gets jealous of guys in my past. guys, who liked me before--and guys who tried to date me.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
6 Nov 08
arialgrs,
I think the biggest danger to any relationship is nothing but ourselves. Most of the time as we use to quip: you have just yourself to be blamed.
Yes, our ego, chauvanism, stubborness, self centredness, poor mannerism, lack of patience, overly suspicious, over reacting, boastfulness, bullying and etc.. Remember, when we are pointing at someone, there's 3 fingers pointing back at ourselves.
So, more often than not, we are actually placing the relationship in danger by our doings and undoings.
Have a nice day.
