would you go out...?

Philippines
November 6, 2008 7:25pm CST
hi mylotters. if you are a girl and a guy who has feelings for you, asked you out in the wee hours of the day like 1130pm or even 2am, would you go? you have mutual feelings for him. but you are not yet in serious commitment. thanks for sharing you insights. happy mylotting!
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10 responses
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
there are certain things to consider if ever i would agree to go out with this guy at those time that you have started. 1. i have to make sure of my safety, 2. do i trust this person i am going out with 3. am i familiar with the place where we will go to. going out at night and during the day is different, what i will do is to tell this guy to meet up during the day instead than at night unless we go in a group. maybe once in awhile but not to often.
• Malaysia
7 Nov 08
If I were you I wouldn't accept his invitation. I am afraid he might do something harmful to me. In fact I don't even know him so well. If he is a real gentleman, I believe he would have asked me out during the normal hours. He doesn't have to sneak out and hide from my parents knowledge. I will never let myself get involved in an unpredictable situation like this. If he really likes me, he would approach me in a nicer way.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
I will not. I was not raised up that way! Why should I go out at that wee hours with a guy. I would not want to invite temptation in my life so why should I go out with a guy I have a mutual feeling with him and even if I am in serious commitment with him I don't see any reason why should I go out with him? What is the purpose? I think the best way is to avoid temptation so better not do any action that would lead to it.
• United States
7 Nov 08
im a night owl so that would work out great for me!! lol.. if i had any interest in the person i would go out whenever..
@abyin007 (426)
• India
7 Nov 08
i wont go out until i find that guy is the right person for me.. and i will find info abt him like his family, friend, culture.etc... if al matches then i will go out with him.....
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
If you think that the guy can be trusted,and anyway you like himd, you can go with him. You did not elaborate here how long they already know each other, if it is just for quite sometimes, the girl should not go yet with the guy, she should give herself first to know first the guys. We all know that guys are polygamous. So you should be careful enough.
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
How strong is your trust with the guy. Although I know the feeling is mutual but then there is this question that lingers in your mind about him. You would not ask this kind of question if you are 100% sure about him. Well if your not 100% sure about that then I guess don't go with him unless you are pretty sure about him and his reason why he chose to invite you in the wee hours of the day.
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
hi chellymarz, if you'll ask me, i will not go. i find it unfitting for me to go with a guy at wee hours. apart from that, i'll also doubt the intention of that guy. like common, where will that guy take you? it's late at night already. it's not like you'll eat at a diner or whatnot.
• United States
7 Nov 08
Yes i would in a heart beat!Im spurmatic anyway but if i liked him alot and he asked me out heck ya i would.Just to have the chance to be with him.So ill be tired the next day oh well its worth it for romance.If you say no he may never ask again thinking you dont like him.
• United States
7 Nov 08
What kind of outing is it? Personally, I would. But then again, I am a night owl. If you have mutual feelings for him, then I say go for it because you never know what is going to happen.