stuck in a rut
By deedeehall
@deedeehall (1143)
United States
November 7, 2008 5:51pm CST
does any one have any ideas as to how we can grt out of this rut i think it might help our relationship alot.my husband and i have been married for 10 years we live on a farm and do not have many neighbors some times i think i will go crazy.we have triplet boys and send to a private school so we try to save money i do work but that is all we do.do you have any ideas?
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@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
I like simple lifestyle then staying in the city. I was born in the province and stayed their for so long. I just been here in the city for almost 2 years. Sometimes I miss the province. Even I am here in the city and I am living with my fincee we really seldom talk to people or friends. Sometimes I feel bored it's work and my fiancee that my life is focus and my mother in the province.But when I am home I make my life busy like doing house chores,I read alot,do mylot,I cook, and do some paper works at home. Living in the city is so fast pace. It's quite tiring.My wife has a hobby and that is doing beaded t-shirts, coasters, bags, that makes her day complete.From that she sells it and it's added income for us. Why not have a hobby when your bored. It helps alot. Anyway have a great day to you and your family.God bless!
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@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
8 Nov 08
Since you are trying to save money, suggesting that you find a baby sitter and go out twice a month would not be a good idea.
Maybe, you can have date night once a week with your husband at home. Pick a night each week, get your boys settled early. Have a special dinner for just you and your husband, after dinner you can rent a movie, and the two of you would be spending quality and fun time together.
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