Please Help Me Out!!!!!

India
November 8, 2008 7:52am CST
hi freinds, i dont like friends who is selfish and look down for their own.. ~~~ I have a friend who is dam selfish and i dont like who touches my system.He turns up to my house only during exams and for rest of the days he wont be visible to me. Now I am vexed up with his behaviour and i am not feeling comfortable to speak with him and i amplanning to scold him very badly to change his behaviour so friends please suggest me whether shud i scold him badly or is there any other way thro which i can let him know about his behaviour??????
4 responses
@Shar1979 (2723)
• United States
8 Nov 08
You don't really need to scold him nor be at a point where you two are fighting and yelling and cursing at each other. Just be direct and straight-forward. Tell him how you really feel about him. Don't sugar-coat words just so to avoid him being hurt. Chances are, when you sugar-coat you won't say everything that's what you really wanna say.
• China
8 Nov 08
when my friend do something which make me angry,I will not say any a word to her until she ask me why.I think if he is your real friend,he is concerned with you,he will mind your attitude to him.if you ignore him suddenly,him will feel uncomfortable.So he will ask you why.then you can tell him the reason and tell him your feeling.
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
the best thing you can do about your friend is to talk frankly. tell them what you really wanted. you dont have to hide of what you really felt for. just be true. after all you can't be friends if you hide what's in you. telling the truth is the best way and i guess it will work. just do the best way to talked with your friend.
@mokbul (616)
• Singapore
8 Nov 08
You should duscuss with him freely what you like and what you don't like. Real friends should understand each others need and problems. If he is yopur real friend and doing the things that you don't like unknowingly, then he will change after you explain him nicely.