Virginity

@jbreyes (139)
Philippines
November 8, 2008 8:07am CST
Does Virginity after Highschool in America is important to girls.? how come some but not all prefer losing their virginity when about to enter college. dont they preserve it to someone they trully love or to the person they will marry
5 responses
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Virginity is not a big issue nowadays. I think most of the girls are influenced by the western countries. But in most cases, girls who lost their virginity doesnt mean that they didnt care about that. Most of them lost it when they begin to fall in love, they trust the man they love so much that they give almost everything, one of it is their Virginity.
@jbreyes (139)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
its acctually girls also sacrifices its virginity just to show how she really loves a guy. for that i think we guys must not take advantage about that. i think some just wanted to test a guys love to her, even though thats the case still women will do everything for a relationship to last.
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Yeah, you're right man. Most of the girls losing their virginity, is because of men. We take advantage of their weakness, when they are inlove. These are all our fault.
• United States
8 Nov 08
Some girls dont seem to care becuase i am in highschool and i see pregnant girls. The youngest one ive seen was a sophomore. Although many people do care about their virginity some give a clear message that they dont.
@jbreyes (139)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
yah really thats the actually reality happening right now in some places. not all but there are few that really don't seem to bother thinking it wisely enough. but do parents take action in that tradition that spread and their children follows?! i think the main reason is curiosity and popularity in schools
@rberon1985 (5394)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
In United States,as far as I know, loding their virginity in high school is just very common and natural to them. here in the Philippines,some alrwady practice this situation.
@jbreyes (139)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
ohh my that was the first time i heard that thing Philippines trying to practice that tradition. but why what is really the point of doin it. in-fact it was actually better to make their man wait for the right moment to really know if the man loves her for what she really is and not for just the physical appearance.
@jmp_72 (246)
• Seychelles
8 Nov 08
I will not comment on American girls but gilrs as a whole. I believe most girls lost their virginity to the person they love. I guess we all remember the feelings of being young and inlove, you want to do everything for the person you love, including giving your virginity. How young they do that got a lot to so with peer pressure, "if all my friends are doing it, why not me". About waiting till they get married that depends on what the girl want, does she want to live with the guy, get to know him before getting married or do it the "right way" - marry first then move in together.
@jbreyes (139)
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
hmm quite impressive answer you really answer in a whole perspective of a woman would probably think of.
• Philippines
8 Nov 08
for me it is! i would just give my virginity to someone i love and i am willing to spend with for the rest of my life. for me, it really feels good when honeymoon comes with your husband and he will find that he is you first. and they said the love and trust would go stronger on that case. [i][/i]