Because you dislike someone, It's Ok to interfere in his personal life?

@eztuner (450)
United States
November 8, 2008 12:12pm CST
I was reading a discussion on my lot about difficult people, and reading one of the posts this question pop up. If you are mad with a friend or an Office colleague,or even a family member will you tell on him/her in order to get rid of that person? I mean if you happen to know a particular secret this person may have that will jeopardize his well been either in the company or with a relationship this person may have. Will you be capable of interfering in somebody's Life up to a degree of destroying this person's life?
5 responses
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
8 Nov 08
I don't, but I worked for a bi... woman who did.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
8 Nov 08
I don't either - but I wasn't going to work under her.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
9 Nov 08
no, she was a female dog - a b*tch
@eztuner (450)
• United States
8 Nov 08
I cannot imaging what a person must be made of in order to do something so damaging to another fellow! I tell you it really got me thinking.
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@ShealM (388)
• Canada
8 Nov 08
Absolutely not ok to interfere with a person's personal life. I believe in the 3 by 3 rule. What you put out comes back to you three fold. I believe in treating the people around me the way I would want to be treated, with respect, dignity and humanely. Even if that person treats me with lack of respect or dignity or as inhumanely as they possibly could. I have no right to interfere with the other person's livelihood, means of lifestyle or family business\dynamics - what happens in their private life is none of my business and if I become privy to such private information I am not only in a position of keeping it to myself out of respect but it is my obligation to do so for the sake of their dignity. No matter how angry one gets with friends, family or co workers there is a mode of decorum that must be followed to preserve the respectful environment that everyone is entitled to.
@eztuner (450)
• United States
8 Nov 08
You couldn't say it better my friend! I was shocked when I read the action this person took on this colleague just because was annoyed by this person. Personal is personal no one has the RIGHT to interfere! Happy to hear from you.
@ShealM (388)
• Canada
8 Nov 08
Always glad to participate and add my two cents to the conversation!
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
8 Nov 08
No. I won't do that because it is not the right thing to do. If I would do that i would feel bad afterward. If I dislike someone I would try not to be in that persons' company. So that he or she wont bother me again. © ronaldinu 2008
@eztuner (450)
• United States
10 Nov 08
That's right! At the end all comes down to how do you feel about yourself. Any how, one can only be hurt by the ones we allow to hurt us.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
9 Nov 08
i ignore people i dislike...they r not worthy of my time or effort...
@eztuner (450)
• United States
10 Nov 08
fifileigh, your response is concise and assertive. Why waste energy in bad vibrations, better ignore them.
@Rachelce (19)
• Australia
9 Nov 08
I spose for me it depends how much I hate the person. But it would haveto be "hate" because they actually did wrong by me..and not just one of my friends or another work colleague. I would tell on them. But for me in the past for some reason i always end up being realy good friends with them after a couple of years of war.
@eztuner (450)
• United States
10 Nov 08
Rachelce you see, Iam this kind of person that believes that hating only damage my Inmune System because usually the subject of hate is not aware of how much is hated, and if he is aware they don't care, contrary they feel important because another person is using energy on them. I have the rule to ingnore people I do not like for any reason. Have a Happy Life.