Have you ever had a crush with your friend's boyfriend?

@Masmasika (1921)
Philippines
November 9, 2008 7:14am CST
No, it's the other way around for me. My friend's boyfriend had a crush on me but I ignored him. One time he admitted it and I told him I will break our friendship if he pursues me. So he stopped fooling around and eventually forgot about me. They were soon married and I am so happy for them. Although I haven't experienced this thing, I find it a very hard situation. Have you any idea regarding this matter?
4 responses
@corngrass (727)
• Malaysia
9 Nov 08
I had once. But not my friend's boyfriend, Not yet at that time. Not only me had a crush on him, even my friend's sister. But i manage to take myself off before i ruin something. And i figure that some years later that the feeling is not love, just a feeling which i treat him more like a big brother.
@Masmasika (1921)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
I'm glad you did what was right then.
@sirrob (4108)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
That has to be seen and I am glad that this doesn't happened to me yet and I am hoping that it won't because it would be a big headache for everyone.
@Masmasika (1921)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
You are right friend. It really would cause trouble.
• Philippines
10 Nov 08
i already experienced it.but it is more complicated rather than that situation.i fell in love with the guy who's the boyfriend of my BEST FRIEND.but the reason why i like him its because i know at first i'm the one who he like or the one who he loved i'm very shocked because one day 1 day my best friend says that they were couple.i can't do anything i hide all the feeling that i felt for him but when he knew that i love him he insists that i'm the real one who he love.then for now i don't know what to do..he broke up with my best friend.. :(( i really don't know what to do.
@Metalchick (1391)
9 Nov 08
Yes and it's a bit awkward actually well it was at the time anyway. One day last year my work mate invited me round hers after work for a few drinks and to go out and watch a band. As soon as I got to her house her boyfriend was at the door and must admit at the time I did fancy him instantly. It was the first time i'd met him and what with the drink fuelling everything the night took a downwards turn. The plan was my mate and I would go to pub and he would stay home and look after his little sisters...but as soon as he saw we were going out he decided to join us. He spent most of the night standing by my side and every so often would touch me in places he really shouldn't have. I know it was wrong but did secretly enjoy it. But while I was watching band I spotted guy from work which I knew and went up to say hello to him...ended up spending most of night dancing with him to the horror of my mates boyfriend who looked at me with jealously whole night. I felt very uncomfortable. When we'd got back to my mates house later that night I had drunk too much so mate said I could stay over. Alhtough I fancied my mates fella I wouldn't have done anything with him...it's just not fair on my mate or me. Anyway the whole time we were sat in kitchen just getting something quick to eat before we all made a move to bed he was looking at me and everytime my mate wasn't looking he'd make a few gestures towards me. It wasn't until my mate went upstairs to get some extra sheets for my bed that he shut kitchen door, pulled me towards him and tried to kiss me. Was hard to break away but I did and considering i'd had the amount i'd had I felt very proud of my strength that night. The problem came later when I was upstairs getting undressed and instead of knocking he just walked straight into my room while I was half naked...was not impressed so kicked him out room and locked it. Haven't seen him since and make sure I don't now.