Have you tried being a bridge to a friend?

@Masmasika (1921)
Philippines
November 9, 2008 7:50am CST
We call someone who helps others propose love to someone else a bridge. When we were still in high school, we were enjoying life too much that we always quarreled with the boys who are trying to court anyone of us. So I haven't tired becoming a bridge to anyone. But I know someone who acted as a bridge and you know what happened, the boy fell in love with her. So instead of the bridge helping the boy to pursue the girl, it is her whom the boy fall in love with and guess what happened next, they were the ones who got married.
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6 responses
• India
10 Nov 08
hai u asked that whether i have tried being a bridge to a friend. yes, i have tried being a bridge to my friend.in my schooling i had a close friend i dint want to tell his name . helived a girl who is nice she is also a friend of me.my friend asked him whether he proposed her or not .he asked me to tell her that he loves her,i worked as a bridge betweem them i joined them they are veery happy . itoo very happy that i fulfill my friends deeds now then they are very happy .itis very nice to be a bridge to my friends.
@ghazal2k5 (920)
• India
10 Nov 08
Oh yeah! i have been a bridge couple of times. I helped my 2 friends to get their love. Once i had to write the first love letter of my friend for his boyfriend.
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
9 Nov 08
I've never actually done that, but I hope that anyone who would like to do this to me is really good at it, because I would be really really grateful! I'm still in high school so as of now I'm not really doing it.
• India
9 Nov 08
So the bridge became permanent. ha ha ha. It happens. It happens in reverse too. If you try to interfvene in a fight, the two will reunite and become your enemy. Once I was caught between two warring bosses. They were daggers drawn and always quarreling at th drop of a hat. soon it turned into a cold war and I became the go between. I had a tough time maintianing a balance between the two. If I praised onethe other woudl get angry and so on. Finally one of the bosses got transferred and i thanked my stars. if he had stayed on fro 6 more months, I woudl have ben in serious trouble.
@iamcdy (1119)
• Philippines
9 Nov 08
Yes, I used to be a bridge between my best friend and a guy classmate during High School. It was such a funny experience. Although they did not end up together, the three of us are still friends. They are both married and happy with their own lives. I guess, it is a part of being in High School. Every time the guy wanted to say something to the girl, it got to me first and vice versa. I even once thought, why don't they talk to each other? But then, I got it. I was the bridge and I enjoyed it, not as much as my best friend but because she shared with me all the chocolates she received from the guy. Never mind the flowers!
• China
9 Nov 08
lol,so funny but not a so novelty to me when occasionally hearing of such phenomena. in general ,matchmaker is like a director, and the guy and girl who the matchmaker is trying to offer a bridge between is actor and actress in the given film. why the matchmaker's heart was stolen by the guy,on the surface it appears to be fantastic ,and the matchmaker is supposed to be blamed for seductive behavior .well,on second thoughts , what if at the beginning she loved the guy the moment the guy loved her?what if to the end they matchmaker became his bride ? i dare say they both are to be blessed ,after all love isnt needed to say why.