Wen do you know u have found ur love?

India
November 11, 2008 7:53am CST
Hi friends am a 24yr guy, had crushes on many gals but still not my love now am really pained by this long wait and am thinking if my concept of love of lasting relationship is wrong that love strikes like a lightning tat u meet someone n u know she is ur soulmate .Plz suggest if u wanna help redeem me.
3 responses
• United States
12 Nov 08
My husband & I have been married for 13 1/2 years & we are more in love than the day we got married. I am a born again christian & I fasted & prayed for God to send me the right man. If you both have the same interst, such as religion, doing things together. My husband truly treats me as Christ loves the church. He still says please & thank you & opens doors for me after all of these years. When you can't stand to be apart from this person & have lots of things in common, then it probably is true love. My husband is my best friend. We treat each other with the utmost respect. I wouldn't hurt his feelings on purpose for nothing. If we hurt the other person, we apologize right then. We also agree to disagree. We are not perfect, but we are happier that we have ever been. You will know in your heart when true love comes your way.
• India
14 Nov 08
Am really happy to know tat u share a wonderful relationship with ur husband ma'am may god bless u with eternal bliss in ur relationship.
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• United States
11 Nov 08
Hi gurucool, I have found true love very difficult to find. I have been married twice. And nether one was the true love I had hoped for. A matter of fact they started out like it was perfect and after I said I do. They changed to a person that I would have not given the time of day to. (A cheater and a verbal abuser.)But, I took the vows. So I lay in the bed I made. I 46 now and feel that part of my life is over. I have spent over 25 years of my life wasted on bad love. I have lost my selfconfident and my spirit. So be very careful on who you choose. I also was looking for love and misread the signs twice. I have lived in such a misruble life, that if I found myself single now. I would never look for love again. Most people that I know that have really found true love, wasn't looking for it at the time. But when they found it. They took there time. Just don't jump in, learn the person, know the person. Not just the show. Beleive me, some people put on a real good show, and they don't show you the true them until it is to late
• India
14 Nov 08
Thanx for tat useful bit of advice n u will be happy to know tat i am careful in looking into the shows people do but waiting really is very hard but after ur advice i think i need persevere more.
• India
11 Nov 08
It is your instinct that shall be guided by divinity and shall help you differentiate your soul mate even in a crowd. The hints shall be dropped dime a dozen and if your soul is really eager to receive such blessing, it shall surely manifest. Just make God your best friend and witness the miracle.
• India
14 Nov 08
Ya am still counting on ma instincts n god thanx for reinforcing ma belief in them.