Why must men be so aggravating?

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GRRR! I'm ready to rip my hair out. I'd rip his out if he had any!! My husband calls me this morning and says he needs $30 to go see the dentist because his back tooth is really bothering him. He had to write a check, but didn't have the check book. So he left work and I met him at the dentist, which is about 20 minutes from home. He went back to work after the dentist and called me to say he hadn't gotten the tooth taken care of. His options were to have it pulled, or see a specialist about getting a root canal. Root canals are darn expensive, and it's Christmas season, we can't afford that right now. So I got angry at him that he made the choice to leave and not have it pulled, knowing how expensive a root canal is. So then he calls the dentist back and makes another appointment for tomorrow to have the tooth pulled. So I ask him is this going to cost us another $30. Well he didn't ask, and he doesn't know. But now he's mad at me for getting upset over this. He kept asking why I was upset, and I'd explain it to him, then he'd ask why am I yelling "Because I've explained this to you 10 times and you're still asking the same questions!!!" We can't afford this, and he's not thinking about that. Then he gets mad at me for not having sympathy for him because he's in pain. It's just so frustrating and he doesn't want to see it. Why must men be so narrow minded, and why do they make the worst possible decisions?