help. my three year old puts everything in her mouth.
By swatilohani
@swatilohani (745)
India
November 11, 2008 10:49pm CST
I feel so guilty as a mother when other kids her age demand food from their mothers. Despite administering the anti worms and hunger increasing tonics, things are back to square one as she will never taste a morsel of food herself. I will run after her for two hours for breakfast or lunch or dinner. When no one is watching, she will taste soil like tomato sauce. Be it a small string or a necklace bead or a book cover end, everything promptly fids way in her mouth. I am at the verge of hair tearing.
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@championvb (1)
• United States
14 Nov 08
Hi
I also have a three year old daughter who puts everything in her mouth and will swallow it too if given the opportunity..she has swallowed crayons, soap, deodorant,car freshener, glue, playdough, dirt, ... just to name a few..and I do watch over her like a hawk but she is QUICK and when she sees me running to come get the item from her she promptly takes a big bite and swallows it down..and I also have a 4 year old son, so even when I put things out of my daughters reach, my son will open the door to the room and leave it open or leave things out that she can get into. It is very stressful so I feel for you. Anyway..here is a suggestion that might help you..It has sure helped us ALOT. I made a bite necklace..I made it out of that plastic (rubber?) lanyard that kids make keychains out of in camp (sorry ..best way I know how to describe it..I think it might be actually called plastic lace?) and then onto the lace I threaded pieces of the rubber tubing like you would use in fish tanks and I bought some infant chew toys that were hooked onto a ring and broke them off the ring and threaded them onto the necklace. I bought some velcro material from the sewing dept and put a strip of this on here which she chews on but also likes to pull the velcro apart too. I took some of the little plastic things that fit over your finger that you use to brush an infants teeth and sewed some together and hooked this onto the necklace too. I used little latches (kind of like the kind you use for keys sometimes) so that I can change out the items on the necklace when she gets bored. It has worked wonderfully. Whenever she goes to eat something inappropriate I redirect her to the necklace and she bites on that. My daughters speech therapist was actually the one to suggest the necklace and I am SO THANKFUL. The episodes of having try to pry something innapropriate from my daughter's mouth have decreased significantly. Good luck to you. If you have any other questions you can email me at momvb2four@bellsouth.net.
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@swatilohani (745)
• India
14 Nov 08
Thanks a lot for such a plethora of helpful suggestions. I never knew that so much wealth of advise may be distributed by sensitive people like you.
I remember that I had a really crying episodes myself when I tried to deflect the nipple habit of hers. The pacifier was sofrequently used by my in-laws that they did not have time or patience to stand her crying sessions whenever a weanng attempt was tried. Ultimately, when I went to my father's house, I spent six sleepless nights to get her rid of the pacifier habit.
@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
12 Nov 08
I don't have children yet but i hough of something. My mom told me it's a difficult task to watch over a baby. She would clean up the floor like no objects anywhere. She puts it out of reach like in a closet or high in the shelves. This could be pretty dangerous. My mom said that she always feared that I would put tiny objects in my mouth like marbles or coins. Once a child swallows it, this would be very complicated. So you might want to keep nothing else on the floor unless she doesn't try to eat her animal plushes. Just the idea of seeing a pair of scissors would be scary enough. About plants, you can put them in a room and close the door...hopefully she's not high enough to open it and start tasting the soil. If she still has a craving for chewing, why not buying her a baby teether? She can put that in her mouth and I think it could make her busy. I hope this was helpful. goodluck
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@swatilohani (745)
• India
13 Nov 08
Thanks a lot for a practical example. While I am at office for a twelve hour duty, actually my mother-in-law, with the help of an agency maid, keeps a twenty four hour vigil over her just to ensure that. When we were children, I vividly remember how my younger sister had put safety pin in her mouth and as my parents panicked and took her to the emergency, she was let off by a scan that said the pin was thankfully closed. She was administered oily foods and loads of butter to ease the pin out the natural way.
@yuna15 (2706)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
OMG that is not good. What we usually do with my toddler when she does that is we try to scare her. Like for example we try to show her a scary insect or animal whether on TV or in real life. For example ants since she was bitten by it we tell her if you eat this ants will bite her all over. We also tell her that worms will get inside her mouth if she does it all the time. It works for us. She avoids putting things in her mouth but now she puts her fingers inside her mouth instead
. It's probably a habit she started to develop but we just keep on telling her not to do it.
Don't lose patience keep on telling your kid to stop doing it or he or she will get sick. We also try to feed my daughter by entertaining her at the same time I know it's weird but it works for us. We try to make feeding look like fun.
. It's probably a habit she started to develop but we just keep on telling her not to do it.
Don't lose patience keep on telling your kid to stop doing it or he or she will get sick. We also try to feed my daughter by entertaining her at the same time I know it's weird but it works for us. We try to make feeding look like fun.1 person likes this
@swatilohani (745)
• India
12 Nov 08
Thanks for elaborating the strategies to cope with the non eating habits of my three year old daughter. We constantly remind her that she will get pots of worms in her stomach if she puts soil in her mouth. At that time, she will oblige but the moment we turn our backs, she is again up to her manouvres. I love gardening but had to remove all the flower pots on account of this.


