Your bathroom business, how much time do you spend?

@mommyboo (13174)
United States
November 11, 2008 10:55pm CST
So I took my daughter to the mall today to meet some friends. My mall has a very nice 'family restroom' area which includes three 'family style' restrooms, a baby changing area with a sink, and a little nursing room with a door. When I take her, she usually has to go pretty badly because she won't tell me as SOON as she has to go. I am really curious how long the average person takes using the bathroom because I swear I had to wait like... more than 5 minutes before one of the freaking bathrooms opened. I don't honestly think it should take ANYBODY 5 minutes to use a bathroom. How long do you spend on average? Myself? 2 minutes! Or LESS! Unless I'm at home OR the restroom is EMPTY. If there's a line I try to be even faster. BTW, the only reason I go to the family ones instead of the regular ones is that the family ones have two toilets, a normal size one and a little kids one. She is so fascinated by those small toilets and there's even a small sink so I don't have to lift her up.
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@jackiew (915)
• Canada
12 Nov 08
For me to use the washroom and wash and dry my hands,i would say 5 minutes.If i wanted to brush my hair or fix my make-up it would be a touch longer.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Even in a public restroom where you know there is line of people waiting?
• China
12 Nov 08
Usually I take 10 minutes to use the bathroom. For me,In the bathroom 10 minutes I can do anything.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Nov 08
I'm not talking about at home. I relax at home with a magazine sometimes lol. I'm talking about in a public restroom where odds are there are at least 2 or 3 people waiting for you to do your business and get on with it.
• Malaysia
12 Nov 08
Usually I take around 5 minutes to use the toilet. I think 5 minutes is normal. Furthermore if we have a kid with us it would take us even more time to spend in the toilet. Howewer if she takes more than 5 minutes maybe I would start to be impatient, and what more if I really have to go and there are other people queuing up in front of me. Other than that, I would be patient and give time to others. I believe if we give time to others, they will give time to us too. Have a nice day, and take care.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Nov 08
That's the thing, the doors have frosted privacy glass on them which means you can't see out OR in, so people inside have NO idea there are people waiting. I wonder if it would change their slowness if they knew someone was waiting.
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Hey mommyboo! That is so cute! We don't have those kinds of bathrooms here! I think that is so nice that they think about everyone in the family. Once in awhile they do have the ones with the changing station, but that's all. The don't have anything else, certainly not like you described. Nothing for nursing mom's. I think that is really cool too! They certainly should! Most of the public restrooms that I go too are so gross and disgusting that you just about barely want to go in and use them. You use them because you really have to go! I am in there and out like a flash and then I feel like I need to go home and shower! I am a clean freak to begin with! It just amazes me how women can be so damn gross! I just don't get it! Can't flush, pee on the seat, paper on the floor! I mean these are adults. C'mon! WTF! Do they do this at home? This isn't just one bathroom I'm talking about! This is Walmart and Target! The only decent one is Burlington and that is because it is a brand new store. The one near my house is disgusting too! I dread going to any public restroom anywhere in my city or the city next to mine where I shop. Yours sounds so nice. I just wish the people could keep them decent.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Our mall did some major remodeling when they redid the theater. They put in a kids play area by the food court and blocked off the mall entry to the theater and redid the bathrooms. Even the regular bathrooms are pretty nice. What I love about the family ones is because you can take little ones in with you and lock the door. There is no worrying about a little boy having to go into the mens' restroom alone while you hover, and no concern about a kid crawling under the stall door or god forbid OPENING the door while you're still using it lol. I have been in several malls that have nursing rooms. My employer put in a nursing room for employees shortly before I resigned. I was excited about it but bummed since I knew I wasn't going to get to use it. Maybe I have lived in progressive areas, who knows. I know what you're talking about with the gross ones. I don't understand how people can be so gross either. You go in and there is toilet paper and those seat covers all over the floor or partially flushed. There is pee on the floor, on the seat(s), etc. Some people leave things unflushed or starting to overflow even if there's a PLUNGER available. I used to be real good at the hovering technique, to not really touch the seat just in case. I hate to tell you there is a sizable slice of population who IS the same at home. They are also the folks who sneak out without washing their hands.... BTW I think my mall bathrooms are staying nice because they have hired an army of cleaning staff. There is always someone sweeping, sanitizing, or doing something in or near one of those bathrooms every time I bring my daughter to the mall. I'm glad, it means I don't have to whip out the hand sanitizer every other minute lol.
@LifeGuru (922)
• Canada
12 Nov 08
Bathroom business on average for me would be 5 minutes or less. Maybe more depends... LOL!
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Maybe it just feels longer because I'm always waiting with a little girl who has to go! Once I was waiting and I heard a flush.... and then had to wait longer... and then when the guy finally came out, he was holding a NEWSPAPER, I swear he was in there just reading his paper, unaware that there was a kid jumping up and down trying not to pee herself!