CONFRONTATION.....? Good or Bad???

Confrontation - do u confront face to face.?
Qatar
November 12, 2008 12:39am CST
Confrontation can be good or bad, it depends on the nature or scenario. COnfronting who is dear to and special to you maybe a complicated thing to do. It depends on the nature of confrontation. Are you patience enough to confide them that you are really sorry for the things that you did? Is it wise to confront them and risk losing the things that you cherish with them? Do u prefer to confront face to face? or confront them thru text or call? Whats your opinion my fellow mylotters? Share it here Thanks ~~Grace~~
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
12 Nov 08
I don't like confrontations of any kind. But if I would have to do so I would rather do it over the phone so that when I end the call it isn't right their in my face taunting me. SO for me it is best to use the phone or email.
• Qatar
12 Nov 08
hi there mtdewgurl74 nice to hear from you once again becos confrontations are never an easy thing from it, you can lose someone who's dear to u still, we shud ready ourselves Happy mylotting...
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
12 Nov 08
Confrontations are never fun to deal with they can cause alot of pain and hurt that can take along time to heal. Sometimes if it is family it does heal eventually but still has rifts. But with someone like a boyfriend or girlfriends or even just friends and can cause irreparable harm than can never be fixed again unless you have a strong bond and can forgive.
• Qatar
12 Nov 08
absolutely.... i am a witness of a face to face confrontation before.... a friend of my friend.... she prefers to confront her face to face instead of sms/fone...because she wanted to see her facial reaction well, confrontations via face to face has always been the best policy. from doing emotions, facial reactions, and truth can be known.. it hurts to be confronted the truth. as the saying goes..THE TRUTH HURTS.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
13 Nov 08
It is true. at times it is really necessary. But it is very had when you try to confront very near and dear ones. it can hurt emotion in any ways.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
confrontation can hurt emotions esp to our dear ones...
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
12 Nov 08
it does depend on the situation and I can't answer this without the situation, because each situation is different, if it is really important then I will confront if it is something that I can ignore than I will just let it be.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
yes it depends on every situation with family, friends or either gf/bf Happy mylotting
@Humbug25 (12540)
12 Nov 08
Hey there Grace030174 I hate confrontation and will usually avoid it at all cost! If I do need to confront someone about something then I will usually do it face to face as I think I would have little respect for myself if I sent someone a text for sure. I think with texting it could also be misunderstood. I guess I would call someone and talk to them about the issue if they lived too far away for me to see them in person.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
i agree with you in the aspect of sending text, we all may say that confronting someone is an easy thing to do yes it really easy to let words from our mouth, but the complicated thing is what comes next. nice to see you again Humbug25 Keep on mylotting
• Singapore
13 Nov 08
Confrontation is not good or bad but just want to find out the truth. As for me, i will confront someone with good gesture, have a good talk with not like those using fist, action etc. yes, i do prefer face to face so that i could see his/her expression whether telling true or not.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
very well said Happy mylotting
@miamhae (339)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
I'm so sensitive that's why maybe face to face confrontation are hard for me. When I have a face to face confrontation with my sister, i can't stop shouting her, that make start our fight then at the end we both furnish by our father. Then, the latest accident that I face a confrontation according to family problem, I'll been so emotional, I can't control my tears to felt. When its come to my fiance, I love to make a small confrontation with him, I love to make him comfort me after he realize that the things he was done was not make me feeling good. The confrontation was being good or bad defends what situation are. Don't make a confrontation to the people that have a small mind I mean close minded, its better for this people, to have professional between you and this kind of people or else its goes in disaster.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
when both cant resist emotions, the tendency is you burst out and it will lead to total argument in which u cant able to solve the problem or the argument hhm yes...u want comfort frm ur fiance after the small discussion with regards to close minded people...this is too hard and they wont accept words from anyone... Happy mylotting thanks for sharing
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
13 Nov 08
confrontation can be good... or it can't... depending on who the person is to be confronted, how will the person receive your comments, it depends on the situation, it depends on the mood of both parties, it depends on how it was started. in my case, before i confront anyone, i do check about these things coz i dont want to end up having enemies...
@mhey4u (12)
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
CONFRONTATION...I usually do it in front of an individual because for me, I can see what's deep inside him thru his eyes and thru his facial expression. By doing it(if the case is negative), the consequence is, you might lose the friendship or the string that binds you together. But the good thing is, you helped him realize how he handled things, what's the result of what he'd done. (for me, k? hehe!)
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
hi MhEy well....absolutely....thats d consequence face to face confrontation will help us to clear things and eventually after confrontation....others are giving cold shoulder and starting to lose d friendship People who listens to speculations rather than hearing the truth or at least try to investigate it first are worthless people.
• Philippines
12 Nov 08
I like confrontations and I like it when I am being confronted.. Whether it is good or bad. There a few people who actually do that and I really appreciate those that do because they are not afraid to show what they feel. I've confronted a few people and it amuses me that there are those that even if you confront them to make things better it turns out to be a bad experience, its either they pretend that its not so or they hide away from you.
• Qatar
13 Nov 08
same here i like confrontation face to face talk to settle things Asap to keep the relationship healthy or bad. watever happens after that it is better to try and nver give up
@Shavkat (136037)
• Philippines
11 Nov 12
It is normal to feel awkward of being confronted by someone. The way of reacting from it is so bizaare behavior. If a person is open for such, then it will be easy to accept the reality.