The Vegetarian Shape Shifter

Philippines
November 12, 2008 5:40am CST
I have a friend who is a vegetarian. I am the the tyo3e of person who eats everything and I'm quite a gastronomic geek. He comments on my food when I had a chat with him as "yucky food." because I was eating hamburgers and barbecue. Our traditional dishes are not like that though, we have exotic foods ranging from vegetables, fish, edible insects, meat from a variety of sources. My point of discussion is, do some of your friends ever had bad comment on your food? I'm a health practitioner so I know the value of each food intake as far as my personal health views are concerned but could you give a picture of what "vegetarianism" is? Some would say it's a lifestyle, a political cry or simply an advocacy for healthier choices but I guess it is rude to just say to someone to shift to a certain kind of diet (you know, imposing your beliefs to someone especially with food.).
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@jands1 (835)
• United States
12 Nov 08
While I think it is great that people have figured out what works for themselves in life, I am all about knowing what works for me. I was a Raw Food Vegan for years. But due to health reasons, I went back to a "regular" omnivore diet. It has taken me awhile, but I finally figured out how to respond to people that say their views in a negative way. "Aww thank you for your opinion. I'm so glad the world is diverse enough to let all of our opinions exist."
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• Philippines
12 Nov 08
That's right. I studied also nutrition and well, if it's about the over-all impact on health, food greatly affects the body. A balanced diet for example is dependent on what the body requires. I love to hear opinion but sometimes, it is just too much when people don't choose the right words. I was asked by some people if all Filipinos eat dog meat and I replied politely by explaining the real situation. It is up to them if they believe or not but certainly I think food issue also could create certain frictions between individuals, believe or not.
@jands1 (835)
• United States
13 Nov 08
Someone actually asked you do Phillipinos eat dog meat?!? Wow!!! I guess their Mum didn't teach them the basics of politeness. Yikes! Food does cause friction between people. But it can bridge language barriers, cultural barriers, etc. Depends on the politeness and open mindedness of each person involved. When I used to travel all over the place, I had the best times in odd places eating what most consider odd foods. My favourite experience was eating piranhas in Venezuela. The family made a big deal out of it and it was such a wonderful experience. Of course the big joke was that the family didn't eat those fish all the time. In fact, they hadn't eaten it before. But wanted to play a food joke on me. They thought that because I was raised outside of Venezuela, I would react negatively to it. I didn't. Fish is fish. :D
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@jands1 (835)
• United States
24 Nov 08
Thank you so much for best response. Yay!
@owlwings (43897)
• Cambridge, England
12 Nov 08
I do feel that many vegetarians (and they tend to be the ones that are most vociferous) champion the cause not for any intrinsically healthy reasons but because they feel it is wrong to kill animals (period!) ... let alone for food. Some of them, it seems, won't eat animal meat but will wear a leather belt or leather shoes - something illogical there, I believe. I regularly eat meat but am 'friendly' towards vegetarians. I do believe that our modern society (depending where you are in the world) eats far too much meat. I find it particularly gross to watch some people stuffing themselves with charred and highly processed greasy cow or pig meat from a barbecue. On the whole, I wouldn't remonstrate with them about it, however, because their heart attack is not usually my concern. Anyway, I have been known to enjoy a good hamburger or sausage myself! On my better days, I prefer cheese, eggs, beans, vegetables, rice and potatoes. I have learned that I generally feel better after a balanced protein meal and, increasingly, I find myself guided in my next meal by what my body told me about my last. If someone were to actually ask me about what I considered a good diet, I would certainly offer my opinion and not think it rude to be plain-spoken. As with anything, though, advice may either be taken in good part or be offensive, depending largely on the manner in which it is given.
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