how can i tell to my friend that i'm inlove with her?

we are at the same position but i have an advantage, i already told her that i love her but at first she doesnt want to believe and as time passes she already believe me but now she just closed the way and told me that we cant go too far, just being friends.. people have different perceptions with those kind of things, maybe the one you love may accept your love to her because you are always at her side OR you may end up just like me.. but theres nothing wrong if you try.... i suggest you take the risk... =)

yagi7uda, As you have said it yourself here, that she has just broken off a relationship and I would think that she is definitely not in the right state of mind and mood to get into another relationship. Experience has taught me that even if she is to commit into a relationship with you now could be taken as her true intent. You see like all aftermaths of a hurricane, it takes time to recover and rebuild oneself back. Same goes for her, I think it will be wise to help her recover and be there for her as a supporting pillar and a shoulder to cry on. Showing her that you care and understand her by taking care of her will speak volumes of your doings and heart. When the calmness is restored I am sure revealing your feelings then will be much more appropriate and timely. Patience is of the essence here, and let time teach you a lesson or two here. Take care and cheers.

First and foremost i can say that your situation is kind of difficult but everything has its solution and answer. Now as what i can see in your situation, you as a good friend falling in love might be just a pity feeling for her because she had share problems to you especially personal things like relationship and you might just mistakenly confused about what you really feel. I understand that in order for her to overcome the pain she had right now is to have someone to take care and feel her the love that was taken from her but that doesn't mean he needs someone like a new boyfriend. It's not like that. It is better that you wait for the right time when she is alright and that she had already overcome her broken heart and that she is ready to enter a new relationship. Anyways you can always take care of her anytime as a good friend and be there when she need someone to cry or lean on. If both of you are meant for each other then that time will come. As for now you can do self reflection and ask yourself if the feeling is really true love or just only love of a friend. When you feel that it is really for serious and that it is really love and not pity then you will know when is the right time to tell her.Your heart and love for her will lead you to it. Just my two cents. Goodluck!

your friendship??!!thats the thing you take the risk, on my case if that happens to me ill definitely tell him how i feel and how much i love him!!that i do care for him whatever would be his reaction, atleast i was honest to my self, my friend its very hard to hide feelings its as if its killing you...so if i were you i would definitely tell her, and just think of the consecquences later on!!you would be free from the thought of what IF's later on...