Two Faced Girls

United States
November 13, 2008 2:18pm CST
I never did good in high school because I just hated all the fake people. The one thing I have yet to understand is why do girls find the need to talk about the other girls in their group of friends? Why are they friends with them if them don't like them and are going to talk bad about them? Why do they act all nice when the person is around and then as soon as the person leaves start talking crap about them? What is the deal with this?!
3 responses
• United States
13 Nov 08
I don't completely understand that either. but what i do know is that some girls feel the need to talk about others to make themselves feel better about themselves. i think it is wrong to speak poorly about someone else. especially because you dont know their situation. They may be going through a togh time in life and they dont need you to make their situation worst. for ex; some girl may come to school very smelly and other girls feel the need to pick and tease on the other girl. but they don't know what she is going though. her family may be poor & may not have enough money to pay for water. i doubt the girl wants to come to school smelly.
• United States
13 Nov 08
Even as a woman I find women hard to figure out. I have every few females friends. I find that most of the time it's just not worth all the drama to try to have friends. Most of them are two faced and judgemental. Why do they feel the need to be that way? I just don't get it either.
• Netherlands
13 Nov 08
I never really understood this either, but it happens daily on every school. You shouldn't worry about it though. I'm sure you are doing good. Just focus on yourself and know school is important for your future. Let them other girls gossip their heads off, they won't get anywhere later. Besides, the same thing is with guys though.