Does it actually ever work out?

If yu leave one for another, chances are that you will leave the second for a third and rthe third for a fourth too. i you can't stick to one, how will you stay with the others? It is not about compatibility. If yo were not compatible then why woudl you get together in the first place. it was not a compulsion was it? if it was out fo free will, then learn to make adjsutments and give each other soem space and a lot of understanding.

Hmm...I've never left someone for a new person. But, yea! my ex-bf did leave me but wasn't for a girl. He just gave up on me...[shows my true colour:-)]. He said he couldn't handle it (or me?) anymore. Anytime I think about love or a man I would love again, his thoughts come to my mind. I can't think of loving another man...it's just so hard to get over him. Coming to your question, leaving someone for another person can never bring true satisfaction. It's just a thought, I might be wrong too. Just thinking of the one who has been left is painful. Why do be in a relationship and make thousand promises when you cannot stay committed. Think a thousand times, before you enter a realtionship...That's all I can say. I hope my response makes sense to you.

Some of those relationships do work out, but most of them do not because nothing beats your first true love.

i believe some may work out and some may not. I had known few that work and some are not. I guess destiny got something to do with it. If both of you are destined to be with each other then i guess you really meant to be with each other but sometimes destiny is playful. It sometimes happen that we thought that we already meet the right person but it is not the one and thats when you found new love from another person. Sometimes the person whom you with and whom you thought is the right one is just an instrument to make you realize or teach you what you really want and who you really want to be with the rest of your life. Anyways, as it always said when you get hurt, it has its purpose and that is to make you realize and appreciate how wonderful love is and vice versa..... Just my two cents..happy mylotting

i think they can never be happy. they have the tendency of trying to get into new relationship again and again. i do not think also its love or something. they are just two timing

hmm..ure right, it does happen alotz eventho it not always work out well..i've never been on that situation tho, becoz i'd rather end the current relationship b4 i start with the new one. coz i dont want it to end coz of the third part, i dont like it, it will hurt him very bad n i dont like that. if i start sth nicely then i will end it nicely too. but many of my friend done that b4. it sometimes like a habit for them, they're so excited to do that, to cheat their guy, dating another guy b4 they end the current relationship. n, i was always bad ending with the new guy. i dont know why, but i guess its like a karma. hmm..

I'm very sorry but this is life. I'm starting to believe that it never works out the first time around. That we are all just going along and making mistakes. Then as we learn, we move on and do things better.

Ive been there. Its true that does happen alot. I cant understand when they tell someone they love them and then go out and find someone new thinking they got something even better and then find out that what they got was not what they wanted. I ve experienced that before and its cruel to me and other people these so called loving people like to do. To me no one should take them back let them see how it feels when they reject u.

stop reminding me of why the world sucks