My husband is being really bad!
By dragonflyfli
@dragonflyfli (5528)
United States
November 14, 2008 8:19am CST
The other night I was getting ready for bed, changing and wearing nothing almost. He was on the computer talking to his boss on messenger. I noticed the webcam light was on. I asked him if the webcam was on, he quickly opened up a window on the ocmputer and said no it wasnt on. Now i know that he was letting his boss have a show of me.
I hate him so much.
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10 responses
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
16 Dec 08
That's pretty twisted. I would even punch my boss if ever he saw my girl's almost naked body. Maybe you husband was just pressured to show you to his boss because maybe you caught his boss' attention and he just can't say no. God forbid, maybe he fancies a threesome with you and his boss.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Yeah, he's a weirdo. And probablly thinking he can just have fun with it.
oh god i hope hes not concidering a 3 some. gross!
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
16 Dec 08
Oh he's already sharing his luck with his boss. Nothin for him . hahahahaaa
Yah i confronted him and he denyed it of course. Nothin i can do really. Just log it into my list of things he does that's stupid.
I think maybe he's gay with his boss now that i wont give him any. LOL
@maroseqf (3657)
• Philippines
14 Nov 08
Oh my God! 
He is really bad! 
Why would he do that? That is really embarrassing. I would not forgive my husband if he does that to me. I think our husband should respect us. What your husband did is an insult to your relationship. He should have protected your image. 
He is really bad! Why would he do that? That is really embarrassing. I would not forgive my husband if he does that to me. I think our husband should respect us. What your husband did is an insult to your relationship. He should have protected your image. 1 person likes this
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I know. I was embarased and shocked. I wont forgive him for that. i am going to be more careful from now on.
@kat_princess (1470)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
I agree.He's bad.My boyfriend never did that to me.Even if he sees that I'm not sitting properly,he would cover me.He protects me and he's affirming that I'm his.No one can see me that way except him.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
14 Nov 08
OMFG are you sure?!?! OH HELL NO!! I would SNAP on my man if he pulled a stunt like that! Thats just twisted IMO....Do you think this is the first time he's done something like that? OOOhhh I'd be just flipping!!
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@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I didnt want to fight so i didnt say anything. just silently filed the information into my head and went to bed. it seems to be the easiest way for me to live life and focus.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
14 Nov 08
That is NOT RIGHT! I would be furious. What kind of man would disrespect his wife in that way? Well, you have already told us what kind of man he is.
I hope you are completely wrong about the blackberry, but you never know. Gross!!
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@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I know it's wrong. I confronted him and of course he denyed it. i am smart i know what happened. And i was wrong about the blackberry. he actually got a new service and the whole conmpany did too and everyone got new phones.
@qinchenglim510156 (83)
• China
16 Nov 08
I know love is selfish ,i do not abide any other look at my partner undressed body .If someone share his partner's undressed body with other ,perhaps he do not love you i think ,Love is selfish ,it is a truth
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
17 Nov 08
its possible that he is selfish. and i dont think love is suposed to be selfish. love is suposed to be giving .. but men have a hard time giving. they always expect more adn more from the woman and they just take take take. no matter what. men arent capable of thinking that deeply as to really love.
@trillan_20 (183)
• Canada
16 Nov 08
Well first off that computer should have been thrown out the window or shoved down his throat! And second of all, I think he is more involved in his job than he should be. Whether its your boss or not, your husband should not approve of ANY other man looking at his wife almost naked! He has issues!
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
17 Nov 08
LOL i agree. i should have shoved it down his throat. he really is more involved with his job then he should. when he's home he is on the phone with his boss or his boss is over here. but he is our neighbor so you dont know. but i'd think they'd want to have some space from eachother because they spend every day with eachother, drive to work together , and then on sunday go to church together. i think they're gay or something.
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
14 Nov 08
he got a blackberry??
seems that you're being used as an reward system.boss sees you and hubby gets a reward.
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@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
14 Nov 08
Well, i really hope that it's just coincidence.... that is really embarasing to me.
@sujithakripesh (425)
• India
14 Nov 08
Oh my god. How could your own husband do that. That is really bad. May be you have mistaken him. Find out whether he is really done that. If he has done that then he is the most idiotic person. He can never be forgived.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
14 Nov 08
I know. I was so hurt. i didnt say anyting because i didnt want to fight. but from now on i have to be careful of what i wear. Its a welll known fact that his boss has a crush on me and i think he might have done it for him. Also why would he lie to me about the webcam being on? i know it was on because i saw the blue lcd light on and the only reason that is on is that the webcam is on. so.
i think i must concider divorce soon.lol
@deedeehall (1144)
• United States
14 Nov 08
sounds like your husband has invaded your privacey along with having no respect for you.i think you should confront both of these guys and let them know that you are a lady and not some toy for them to play around with .another thing is your husband recieving gifts from his boss in return for this?hes not your pimp.i would say something.
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@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
14 Nov 08
He has definately invaded my privacy. He does stupid crap to me all the time and when i get upset he just ignores me. I just dont want to fight anymore. I think this was the last straw. I am not angry, I feel more resolved in my mind that i should just leave.
@navas4u (185)
• India
14 Nov 08
Are you sure that this really happened?Or was it just a conclusion from your part?I don't mean that you are lying but I just felt that any husband can't do such things to his wife.
Anyway there is no point in hating him.Let's find a solution for this problem, before it become a destructive desease.Go,Just talk to him what you felt.Actually it was to whome you must e-mail or start a discussion first.I understand that you just tried to releive your tension!So, just start a discussion right with him right now!Talk openely , not aggressively though!Because if he has done it intentionally, he must feel sorry about it.(even if he does not confess it).And if he has not done it, unkowingly it is your fault to make him a culprit.
So, In brief if he he has committed it, give him a chance to save his face.
Otherwise let him feel deep sorry about it.
That will strengthen your relationship.
So, talk to him right now!!It's your life...
