When a group is united to insult you

@sktekweb (277)
India
November 14, 2008 9:59am CST
Sometimes a group is made to offend you and spread rumor against you to depress you and disturb you.How can we handle the situation?
2 responses
• Canada
15 Nov 08
I have been to this situation many times in my life. It sure depress me and disturb me. It makes me shed so many tears for the hurt they give. What I learn from it is the far I feel and show them I am hurt and depress. The more it makes them happy. So I start of giving a pride to my self for that. I didn't fight back to them or do what they do. It never gives you good outcome for doing bad from what they have done bad. Instead I prove to them that the things they are spreading are not affecting me and the rumors they say I show a lot different to it to make other see it's not true. What I put in my mind is that they are just insecure for being me and that they can never put me down on their knees. Remember the one's who get disturb, get mad and cry are called Loser's. No one likes to be a loser, right? So give them your best shot, it's time to show and use good stuff and youll surely see at the end they will get tired of spreading rumors or maybe are the one's who'll get depress and disturb. If you do bad things it always comes back to you so just hold on to that belief. Right now what you can do is, when you hear anything. Just wear that best attire to fight back. SMILE!, yes smile on it and pray for strength.
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• United States
15 Nov 08
When someone forms a group to insult you there is reason behind the formation. You need to understand these people are cowards and hide behind others. Find out the reason you are being attacked and then find the ringleader of the group. Do not arm yourself with angry words. Instead be prepared to remain calm, friendly and even kind. When you confront the group do not waste your time with the lower levels save yourself the time and go directly for the leader. Speak your peace and demand that they stop the rumors and leave you alone. When the others see that you go directly for the leader some may back down because they see what is going on. The ringleader themselves may leave you alone. If not you may have to get the help of a boss, teacher, or other authoritry figure to intervene and help you.