How to deal with it when you on this condiition?
By bluerainhong
@bluerainhong (400)
China
November 14, 2008 6:46pm CST
For examply, you and your boy friend works in the same office, you are the one whom close to boss. As time flying, you boss has fallen into love with you, but you not love him. However, the boss tell you, if you stay with him, you boy friend will get promotion and high pay.
Only one condition, will you accept it or not? Maybe your boy friend now need them very much.
4 responses
@hildas (3031)
•
15 Nov 08
That is an awful situation. I think I would have that boss taken to court for what he is doing. It is blackmail. I would hate to be in this situation myself, but if I loved my boyfriend that much I would tell that boss where to go. Is there not a law for this in this your country? Is this actually happening to you or someone you know?
Tell that boss NO! and take it from there. Goodluck.
@bluerainhong (400)
• China
15 Nov 08
Oh, it happens to my best friend, she asks for me how to do it. You see, she and her boy friend still live on a penniless state, if she accept that boss, they will get wealthy life. Most of young girls, they always betray themselves in order to live well. It is common. That' s terrible.
I also persuade her to leave that office with her boy fried. But she do not wanna to lose her job. So I have nothing else ideas.
@natsvelascotan (665)
• Philippines
15 Nov 08
I don't think my boyfriend will be happy knowing he got a promotion and higher pay that way. I'd leave my job as soon as I can .. and ask my boyfriend to do the same ... that is if we were really serious with each other
@loxion (1553)
• India
15 Nov 08
I think if you accept it...it will show that you do not love your boyfriends, i mean how can you exchange love for promotion?
I believe bosses like that are the ones who just cannot control their temper and are somehow who misuse their powers and at the end will turn out to be rude, i mean what will happen if you decide to leave your boss sometime when you don't want it anymore?...he would probably be nasty to both you and your boyfriend, he may fire both of you.
And again as i said those bosses could be rude, if you say no to their love he may also fire your boyfriend so that he is left with you in the company, and that way he can talk to at anytime he want
I think if i were the woman i would say no, and better remain at the lower level in the company, rather than being used and my marriage with my boyfriend turing into disaster
I mean what will happen if your boyfriend notice some strange behaviour between the two of you?
@stiener (735)
• Singapore
15 Nov 08
If you accept the offer and your boyfriend found out about your affair later...do you think he will accept it? You might ended up losing your boyfriend instead...so I do not see the point of this choice working out. If he is willing to let you do it for the sake of money and status, then I do not think he has placed love on his top priority...do you think he deserve your sacrifice in this way? Think about it...
