Birthday party invite

Yes I always let the parents know that my child will be attending a party it is good manners to do so. People that do not let a parent know their child will be attending is a bit naughty.

For me it would depend on what was written on the invite. If nothing is stated about RSVP then I probably would just show up. However if there is an RSVP I would call because they are likely making things and would like to know how much to plan for. Because I work at the school, I usually talk to the child there and tell them that I my child can go. If we can't make it that day then I would tell the child we would love to come but can't. I probably would not phone to let them know we couldn't come. If I handed out invites I wouldn't want someone to call and say they aren't coming but I would like them to call if the are coming. I see at the school lots of children saying they are going to parties but come the birthday they can't get there. So a call or word from a parent is always best. Happy early Birthday to your twins :)

We have always RSVPed even if it is not requested on the invite. It just seems like a matter of courtesy

I try to call with a couple of days after receiving the invitation, but not everyone will be that courteous. I like to talk to the parents and see what activities they will have at the party and if they need any help during the party. If I don't know the family very well I am not always comfortable leaving my children with out my supervision. I also want to get ideas for what type of a present would best suit their child.