would you choose your bf/gf or husband/wife over your own family?????

United States
November 7, 2006 4:45pm CST
my brother is dating this one gurl....who gave him an ultimatum....either us (his family) or her....what would be the right thing for him to do....if he chooses her, how should we react???
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Thewishlady
@Thewishlady (1057)
• Netherlands
7 Nov 06
First of all I think its wrong of that girl to ask him to choose between his family and her. If he is seriously thinking about it... then she must be very special to him...else he wouldnt even bother thinking about it. I ofcourse dont know that girl but thats shes asking this of yor brother says enough to me.. If he chooses her... you can better let him go and let him find out how the girl really is... He will come back I think...
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mahlyssah2002
@mahlyssah2002 (374)
• United States
7 Nov 06
hes only 18....and shes barely 16.....shes a lil gurl...if she doesnt get him all to her self...she threatens w/breaking up w/him blah blah blah...her damn family just to make tha gurl happy...bc she is a spoiled lil brat!....offered him a room in their house...i think that is so wrong in her familys part too....he doesnt want to lose us yet hes afraid of losing her too....bc of tha whole fact she is 16 and he is 18...he thinks hell get in trouble.
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Signal20
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Ask him who's gonna be there forever for him? Tell her not to let the door hit her in the a$$ on the way out :)
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mahlyssah2002
@mahlyssah2002 (374)
• United States
7 Nov 06
we all been trying to tell him that...he just so in looooooooooove that he doesnt seem to get it... :(
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