What if you are turned down in love?

India
November 16, 2008 10:54am CST
Do not be bogged down by rejection. If you are rejected, it does not mean it is your fault. May be you are not suiting the parameters of the person you are seeking. Try and find out what the real reason is for her to reject you. If the reason is beyond your control, do not worry and let it pass. If the reason is something you can work on, do it if your desire for her is exceedingly high. For example, if she has rejected you for having a bad habit like smoking, try and work on it if the person is really valuable to you. Ultimately it is your decision. Also, do not take rejection to heart. You will always find some person who loves you for the way you are. Atleast it is commended that you walked upto the person and professed your love.
1 response
@Shar1979 (2722)
• United States
19 Nov 08
No, I havent really experienced being turned down yet. I am not looking forward to experiencing it though. If I did, I'm sure I could handle it. Best way is to just accept it and just move on.