Loving a person with different interests and thinking is very difficult!!!

November 16, 2008 11:42am CST
What is love? What is the true love? And what is the love with honesty? On our planet as well as everywhere, thing need to be connected with each other. Father needs to communicate with children. Students need to contact with teacher. Every people need to know each other. Why? Why do we have love? Does it easy to love someone? OR does it easy to love someone who don't have the same interest to us. It's so complex to me. My everyday life start to change from day to day since I meet a girl. She is a girl who can change my everything. I start adapting myself into her world. Is it wrong to do like that? I just want to do everything in order to be near the person whom I love. But I got problem from day to day. We don't get along with each other at all. I don't know why. I just know that I am trying to change myself alone, but for her, she has never changed herself for me. Even though she does like that, because of my love for her, I still try to do something for her again and again. But the result that I get is that she still never understand my mind. I don't know what I can do to make her change. Who have the problem like me?
1 response
@impexp (246)
• China
17 Nov 08
I will give up if I were you. It's ok just to make friends with ones who have different interests and thinking,but you should consider in a serious manner cause if you want to choose such one to be your life mate.It is so hard to live together if the wife and husband have no similar habbit or interests.It seems to live with a stranger at all.I think it is waste of time to change your girlfriend cause she's no wrong with her thinking or interests.You'd better find others who are similar with you.
• Cambodia
17 Nov 08
Your idea is a good idea, but if I were him, I would not left her because I am a person who always try even though the thing that I want to try is difficult for me.