woukd you still accept him?

Philippines
November 17, 2008 1:43am CST
I have a friend during HS, she and her bf has been together for 3 years. Though they live far apart they still manage their relationship well. But then he suddenly disappeared. No phone calls, no emails, as no communication. My friend is still in touch with her "bf"'s sister but she see to it that topic regarding his so called "bf" was not discussed. Then after a year, she received a phone call, the caller didn't have to introduced himself, the guy actually have the guts to asked my friend if trier still on. (meaning if they still are together) And guess what my friend answer "If that's what you wants then we still are together" I was "WHAT?". What is she thinking of accepting him? And she said she was still in love with him. So I was like ok, if thats what you feel. I hate the guy so I just watch and observe how the relationship will go this time. But then on the night of guy's birthday, where they supposed to meet in a mall, she got stood up. So I was like so frustrated, I could almost kill him. Then one night she received a call.. she again accepted him.. comments??
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@cathya (704)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
probably your friend is so in love with the guy thats why she kept on accepting him without any explanation. or may be your friend is just being blind about the feeling of being in love. have you tried to asked her about her true feelings for the guy?!? because i have this second thought that your friend might just playing also over this guy thats why she's like that.
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
hahaha... she can be playing now.. after all that she's been through with that guy. I actually introduced her to some other guys that I know.
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
You mean she just "accepted" him after that hiatus of one year OVER the phone? That's weird. They should've at least talked things over IN PERSON. I mean in respect to your friend... but however, since SHE was the one who accepted him over the phone then the guy can't complain, can he? You know, my two cents worth, if he can "hide" for a year just like that, he can do it again ANYTIME. I think someone should talk to your friend.
• Philippines
17 Nov 08
Yup that's what I also thought. Well though they got back together thru phone and accepted him over phone, they actually go out and date after that.. only that again he manage to do it again.. I know I should put some sense in her. But I can't. I even asked her what she see in him that makes her fall that hard. I mean the guy left you twice for God's sake. But she me her word that its his last chance. Though Im not confident with he words, but im about to find out.