would you date your friend?

Philippines
November 17, 2008 4:39am CST
I find this thought very awkward but very realistic. Lots of times this things happens not only to me but to anyone. I never want to date any of my friend(BFF's) Its just dating may turn to love and love always equals to hurt or pain. Once I got hurt, I cant pretend to BFF's with you anymore. I dont to be fake and pretend something that Im not. comments fellow lotters?
1 response
@YamiKiba (937)
• United States
17 Nov 08
I'm not really sure as almost all of my friends are girls and I am a girl myself. . .the male friends I have I see them as younger siblings, so it would be awkward if I even thought about it haha. Another issue is that I'm not so sure on what my sexuality is yet as I see beauty in both genders. . .I'm not sure if its even a gender or self-esteem issue for me, probably both. All I know for sure is I like my friendships but you can't have love without friendship either or else it would be an empty relationship. There are all types of love, and I'm particularly attached to one friend but I don't know if I'd actually date her. .I wouldn't push her away if she asked one day out of the blue but I don't see that happening and nothing would really happen since I don't see myself as the one making the first move lol.
• Philippines
18 Nov 08
hahaha nice thought! Guess what I'm a girl too. whahaha Anyways, growing up I was a tomboy type of gal but then later on I suddenly choose pink over black, and pants over skirt. And being surrounded by my friends meaning guys, is a little hard. We can talk anything under the sun. Girls(though Im also a girl) together with them, we rate girls we on the street. Talk about their life, the typical guys, to a point that they treat you as a guy. I treat my friends as brothers and sisters. And knowing they like you let alone love on a different level like you do is very hard to deal with, very awkward to whole gang. *sigh* girl believe me its hard.. Thanks for the reply.;p