When your in love do you expect something in return?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
November 17, 2008 9:52pm CST
It's not easy to expect anything in return, cause you don't know what will come next. You just have to work out the relationship but not expecting in return. Have a nice day!
6 responses
@sherylp77 (22)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
For a healthy relationship we should'nt be expecting anything in return, but it's not reality, we tend to expect from our partner and that always ends up in disappointments because we want them do to what we want.
Yes i somehow expect him to be love the way I want, and that is not right, It should always be on his term so I don't get sad by it.
@lost_wanderer (3)
• Mauritius
19 Nov 08
Perfect love casts out fear. Where there is love, there is no demands, no expectations !
@jeszieltrevor_4ever (117)
• Canada
18 Nov 08
There is only one thing I hope in return. To love me as well but it doesn't mean I won't love anyone if they won't love me espcially when you have somebody who treats you as their enemy. I will love them and even if they don't love me, I will still. That's one side of love. The other side of love for me is the unconditional love. In short a love for your partner. I will really expect for my partner to love in me return and no other than that. Loving me is just enough and it makes me happy. As long as I know he loves me, I will diffinitely do anything for the love we have, to fight ans sacrifice for it. Just that he is there beside, to be my strength.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Well when I couples who love each other holding hands, I think that they had been reciprocating what they feel for each other and I feel good. I hope my partner and I can be the same. I believe in unconditional love you give love you show love,cause you accept your partner for what he is and for what his gonna be. I'ts just good when you feel love also and that she /he returns what you feel for her/he. Keep on smiling! God bless!
@qiqiwonder (122)
• China
18 Nov 08
the noly thing that i want in return is his love to me,not money,not flowers,not other things.if he can't love me i think i 'd better stop loving in case of getting pain.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Itt's to hard when you love the person and still doesn't reciprocate with your feelings. Yes you are right it's not the material things that counts alot it's feeling love and importance, and not taking you for granted. I rather also leave then having more pains and hurts,then just me who is just feeling love. Thanks keep on smiling,and have a great day to you!
@lexishantell (57)
• United States
18 Nov 08
I dont ever expect anything in return. I love the person for who they are not for what they give me in return. I do stuff for them because I love them not because I would want something from them. I think when you expect things they never happen but when you dont expect things they happen and the relationship turns out much better.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
You know what I feel the same thing. It is hard when you expect something in return, then nothing happens that hurts so much! You do give because you want to share it, it comes from the heart what you do for them. Anyway thanks keep on smiling! God bless!
@Bobbi1971 (42)
• United States
18 Nov 08
No...I think that when you are in love you never expect in return. It just makes you happy to make the one you love happy. In my experience if they feel the same way they will let it be known back.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
19 Nov 08
Yes that is me I don't expect in return,but when your partner returns it by showing that he/she loves you it's a good feeling. What counts a lot is showing your partner that you love her/he and making the relationship works out fine. Have a nice day to you!
