Forgiveness

I don’t know whether it’s a merit or not but to me its good riddance to a whole lot of problems and peace to my soul. Its not everytime that I can win an argument or that I can fight back…I cant even protest in so many situations. All these keep on haunting me, tormenting me. And then there are so many sides to a particular story, you never know whom to believe who is correct. So its best to forgive, forget and move on.

Forgiving indeed is a very divine act....and it not only makes the person who has been forgiven happy , but it also gives peace to person who is forgiving...But there is one thing that you cannot deny , things don't remain same even though forgiveness tries to make every thing look normal.......some scares always remain. Best is to see that unpleasant events just don't happen. I know that is impossible....but we can try. Have a nice day.

I forgive fairly quickly,someone would have to do something really horrible to me for me to ever consider to hold a grudge:)

I do think so, we can think it in this way, if you make a mistake, and you feel very sorry , and want others to forgive what you have done. In this case, if others do not forgive you, so how do you feel ? so , i think forgiveness is really merit, unless it is more than we can stand, and we have to take action to respond to it.

It's easy to forgive but it's very hard to forget! I mean, in time you forgive people for what they have done but you can never forget and somehow, that things holds you back :) I forgive my friends mistakes more easily than I forgive my work colleagues for something bad they have done to me. Maybe because feelings are involved?!