regaurding friend requests...

United States
November 19, 2008 8:42am CST
WHY IS IT THAT PEOPLE WAIT SO LONG TO EITHER APPROVE OR DENY THEIR REQUESTS?i HAVE OVER 30 PENDING RIGHT NOW.i'M TRYING TO NETWORK HERE AND WISH THEY WOULD EITHER ACCEPT OR DENY ME.COME ON PEOPLE WHERE ARE MY NEW FRIENDS AT?
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@cream97 (29163)
• United States
19 Nov 08
It could be because they may have been away from myLot for a while, and they have not gotten the chance to accept or deny the friend request. Or, they may not want to accept or deny it.. For whatever their reason may be.
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@jessi0887 (2792)
• United States
19 Nov 08
yeah I was going to add. There are times where I can be away for a few days. So maybe the ones you requested are unable to get back on. Some might not even return.
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@rocketj1 (6960)
• United States
19 Nov 08
Are they active? I've only been here a short while and MANY of the first people that became my friends have become inactive. It just may have been unlucky timing for you in that respect. Some people also may be waiting to see what you are like by checking out your responses to discussions for awhile. Also, many people only myLot on the weekends because they don't have access at work or even vice versa. I usually answer my requests right away. Although I have a few sitting there that only have a (2) by their name and I am waiting to see what their activity is like.
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@jessi0887 (2792)
• United States
19 Nov 08
I know what you mean. I only have one pending from two weeks ago. Thats why i decided not to request anymore. Let them request you that way you know it won't pend long on your end.
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