bad kids from good parents

United States
November 19, 2008 2:16pm CST
do you believe bad kids can come from good parents?what does is a parent to do when this happens after all that hard work?do you believe some kids are just destine to be in trouble?
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10 responses
@mjmlagat (3171)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
Sometimes it's the case but I don't believe that there are just some kids who are destined to be in trouble--they're either misguided individuals or victims of bad influence in society or among peers.
@etranger (126)
• India
20 Nov 08
just my thoughts, yeah its the influence of society in most of the cases
• Qatar
20 Nov 08
Bad kids not always the parents fault. Raising children is one of the most important jobs, which need long term endeavor. Parenting does not stop when a child grows up. Being a parent need a longlife role. Lets face it, even with the best parenting, kids dont always act properly. with proper guidance, love and care,some children mislead their life. sometimes, its with the environment, friends.... there are parents who are perfectionist, who want their children to act perfect, to do prefect things....and its not correct...there shud be room for mistakes, second, punish too hardly, which is bad and it shud be limit. Discipline works best when it is mild. Talk and communicate with children as much as possible.
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
i really dont believe that kids become bad because they have good parents... there are a lot of good parents who discipline their kids. environment is another factor why kids become bad, because they want to feel the sense of belongingness, at times, they were in a group of a not so good influence. some kids are just so hardheaded that they dont want to even listen to what their parents would say... im just hoping that my kids wouldnt end with those kinds of people... well, as long as im here, i would always remind them about good behavior...
@etranger (126)
• India
20 Nov 08
i dont believe them to be derstined its just the company in which you are in , if the kid is homely and stays most of the time at home one can blame on parenting but if he's out of house most of the time its just his company which determines him being bad or good
@robinemz (211)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
it depends.. how do you define good parents?
@robinemz (211)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
this depends. how do you define a good parents?
@lou1982 (122)
19 Nov 08
i dont think bad kids come from good parents because if a parent has done there job rite they should turn out well behaved and respectable if they are not shown whats rite or wrong thats how they end up also parents that are to soft end up with uncontrollable children
• India
19 Nov 08
Yes i belive it because child's are big monkey they copy everything from their surrounding and try to do that .if they bad kind of friend that he also become bad.
@barehugs (8985)
• Canada
19 Nov 08
Forget the "Good and Bad" and think "Knowledgeable and Ignorant." in other words there are no Bad kids, there are only Ignorant. Or to put it another way bad Kids are just Ignorant. They have never been taught right from wrong. Same with Parents! many Parents are ignorant of the proper procedures used to teach kids. Their kids have a much higher chance of turning out problematic, than the children of Knowledgable Parents, or parents with the Knowhow necessary to teach Children right from wrong.
• Netherlands
19 Nov 08
Education for kids is very important. I believe "bad boys" don't only come from parents but also friends, movies and games. It could inspire them to do something bad but I think as long as the education is good the children would be fine.