Marine Wife, a day in the life

United States
November 19, 2008 2:32pm CST
My husband is a U.S. Marine. While he is at work, I have to rely on other people to take me places if I need to go some where. (We only have the one car) Well today a friend across the street was suppose to take me a few places. You know, get some money, pay some bills, see about WIC. We went one place and she drove back home. I hate that I have to rely on others, because I never said "hey what about the other places you said you'd take me," because in my head she didn't have to take me anywhere. I should just be thankful I got one thing done. And don't get me wrong I totally am, but I am one of those people that likes to get things done right away, and it is really hard to do that from here. We are working on getting a Mini-Van right now, because the car we have isn't made for carseats, and with the baby on the way, it seems like a good idea. But I really can't wait until we do, so that way when he is at work I have a way to get around when I want to, and get everything done at once. And I also won't feel bad about bumming rides, because I won't need to. And for those of you who read this and go "why don't you just go get a mini-van now then," it is harder than that. Believe it or not, Marines don't make much money at all. I mean when I was working at Wendy's, I was probably making more than my husband. So it is more complicated than that.
1 response
• United States
9 Dec 08
I know exactly the situation that you are in. I was a young Marine Corps wife at 19 and was also pregnant. We only had a little truck at the time. I would get up with my husband in the morning, drive him to work at Cherry Point when we lived in Jacksonville then either sleep in the truck (because I was so sick from being pregnant) or drive back home. My suggestion would be to coordinate with your husband on the days that you know you have errands to run. Drop him off and pick him up on those days. It may even be part days and you go get him during chow. Alot of making it as military couple (well any couple) is sacrifice. You may have to get up WAY earlier than you want, but you guys will learn to work as a team. (*Plus--he can see that you really are getting things accomplished--something that the don't always tend to realize.) Hope this helps. Trust me, we've been married 10 years now. SH - www.myherodirect.com