Walking holding hands...

Holding hands...  - What do you think?? Do you love holding the hands of your partner??
@kissie34 (2295)
Philippines
November 20, 2008 2:26am CST
I'm just curious, Do you hold the hand of you partner while walking?? Or just keep on walking beside her/him?? Well,most of the time me and my boyfriend don't hold hands while walking whether in public or private places.. He will just hold my hand when we are walking in the road to assist me.. But sometimes, I used to hold his hand while we were walking.. Sometimes, he is not comfortable.. Me also sometimes I am not comfortable walking with holding hands not because I don't like people will see us holding our hands or don't like to hold his hands, its just that I'm not in a mood to hold his hand.. Well, same with him also when he is not in the mood he also don't like to hold my hand.. So, what about you guys?? Do you walk with a holding hands?? Do you feel comfortable walking with him/her while holding his/her hands in public places? Please share your experience with us! Thanks for the time..
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13 responses
@lazeebee (5466)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 08
Hi Kissie, my hubby loves holding hands; he's got warm, dry hands, and it's nice having him hold my hand when we are walking!
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
Yes, it really nice to hold the hands of our love one..Thanks for sharing!
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
i would love to hold hands my husband... even before, when we were still in our bf/gf days, we always hold each others hands when we walk... I feel comfortable and secure when he holds me...
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
Yes, Me too.. I also feel secured when he hold my hands while walking especially in the public places and in the street.. It only shows that he don't want to let me go and he is protecting me from any harm that might come.. Anyway, thanks for sharing!
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@mariacel (50)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
hi kissie, my husband & i were married for 17 & 1/2 years but until now we still used to hold each other's hand while walking, while watching tv or movies or even while chatting. i actually felt awkward during our first year of being steady (hmm, that was a long long time ago:D) but i don't know why he really loves to hold my hand. during those years, i always felt ashamed when he holds my hand but he told me that i should not be ashamed of my hands because mine was hardworking hands. as per him, he got to knew me better because of my hands:D until i discovered that he was right, & im so proud of him that he never fails to hold my hand!
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
wow! that's great to know.. Well, maybe your hand is very soft that's why your husband love to hold your hand.. Your husband might always want you to be his side because he feels that his not alone when his holding your hand.. You're still sweet with each other.. I had never seen my parents holding their hands when walking, or watching TV.. I don't see them holding each other hands.. Actually, when they are walking my father used to put his hand in the shoulder of my mother but never holding hands.. They were married for more than 30 years already.. Anyway, thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
thanks kissie. really im very thankful having a husband like him coz im so lucky having someone who loves to hold my "working hands". yes, my hands are not soft like many ladies' hands. that's one of my wish, "to have soft & smooth hands" but my wish wasn't granted. instead, God sent me a man who will love my hands despite of. hehehehehe. thanks for the reply!
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
14 Apr 09
oh! well, your husband just really love to hold your hands no matter it's soft or not.. I guess he just really loves you and through holding your hands he is making you feel that he loves you.. Thanks for sharing!
@alyssa_c (440)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
I feel uncomfortable with the holding-hands-while-walking thing. I'm more at ease when he puts his arm around my shoulders instead. Sometimes, I would link my arms thru his. The only time we hold hands together is when we're sitting down, or talking, or just doing nothing, but never while walking around. =)
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Oh! ok.. Well, its more sweet when he put his arm in your shoulder it seems that his hugging you will walking... Anyway, thanks for sharing!
@alyssa_c (440)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I know =) It's weird, though, how we both get uncomfortable with holding each others' hands while we are totally good with his arm over my shoulder, or my arm around his waist hehe I could never understand why.
@rmuxagirl (7554)
• United States
25 Nov 08
My boyfriend and I are always holding hands. When we are walking, driving somewhere or just sitting on the couch or in church. Sometimes when we walk he will put his arm around me, or kind of like on the small of my back as if he was guiding me. When we first started dating he linked arms with me to make sure that I didn't slip on the ice.
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
26 Nov 08
His so sweet. Well, that's great to know! My boyfriend don't usually put his arm in my shoulder when we walked and especially in the public places. He just put his arm around my shoulder when we were sitting then sometimes holding hands but never in the public places.. We somehow hold our hands but not all the time.. Anyway, thanks for sharing!
22 Nov 08
I like to walk holding hands with a lover, my boyfriend never walks with me without holding each other's hands. He don't care if we in a public place or not, as long as he can hold my hand. Even when we are just sitting down watching television or somewhere he always holds my hand. Sometimes if I don't want him to hold my hand he says to me " are my hands rough or unclean for you?"
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
haha... So,what is your reply with his question?? Sometimes, my boyfriend also told me the same thing as what your boyfriend had said.. Well, of course theres really a time that we feel awkward or not in the mood and we don't like our partner will hold our hands.. Anyway, thanks for sharing!
@brando10 (175)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I do hold my wife hands every time we go out. I think it's a way for us to bond. It really feels right when I hold her hand. She always tells me that she feels secure with it. Also, I feel proud to have her as my wife. It really depends on the perspective whether to hold hands or not in public.
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
Well, I think all girls think about it also that when their partner or a guy hold their hand while walking we really feel safe and secure because we know that there's someone who will take care of us.. Anyway, thanks for replying!
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
We do hold hands when we walk. I find it good not only because it sweet to look at but I get support from my partner also.
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
25 Nov 08
Anyway, thanks for sharing!
@izathewzia (5139)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Yes, we always hold hands while walking or traveling. Even when we are sleeping. It reminds us that we have each other. That we are just beside each other.
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
oh! Even in sleeping?? You really show with each other how much you want each other affection.. Anyway,thanks for sharing!
@katrhina23 (1282)
• United States
21 Nov 08
Yes we do that. we just do it unconsciously.
@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Thanks for responding!
@littleowl (7157)
20 Nov 08
Hi kissie, when out with my partner I put my arm in his, neither of us feel uncomfortable with the situation, sometimes we haold hands,,this doesn't happen all the time but it is a sign of affection, and it is nice for others in public to see that..thats my feeling on the subject though everyone is different...littleowl
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
thanks for sharing!
@swtpareek (651)
• United States
20 Nov 08
Holding hands is a way to feel protected and his presence near you. I love to hold the hands of my bf. That way I can feel him near me and I simply love that feeling.
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
Thanks for sharing!
@magojordan (3254)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
I love to hold my girlfriend's hand when we are walking. I feel happy when I do that because I feel that a gap is filled everytime I walk and hold her hand. I love touching her hand because in a way I am assured that she is there in my sight away from other dangers.
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@kissie34 (2295)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
I know that your girlfriend also love holding your hand because you really show how much she is secured since you were there to protect her.. Thanks for posting!