you hurt?? You should change

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Such is the trap into which millions of us fall, blaming others for our hurt feelings and making demandas upon them for change.This is very similar to the preceding " YOu make me unhappy" trapping which only leads to giving away of personal power ,a continued lack of sel-esteem and more power in the hands of those who so "hurt your feelings".To choose not to make ones happiness dependent upon others leads to real empowerment.And it is possible!!!!