And marriage is...

@gtdonna (1740)
November 20, 2008 7:04pm CST
So I am watching TV tonight and in the intro to the show the girl says "As the General always told us, marriage is the only way you can get to sleep with your enemy" Do you believe this?
3 responses
@seeiloveu (100)
• India
21 Nov 08
Maybe for an army-men ... But, for the rest? Guess, your Joystick is at risk!
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@gtdonna (1740)
23 Nov 08
Why the joystick?
@jlamela (4906)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
NO, I don't believe it, of course, it sounds so hilarious, but marriage is a lifetime commitment of two people who are in love, it is in that state that we have to spend the rest of our lives with our chosen partner. It is supposed to be a happy union and not a nightmare. Well, maybe some people try to define marriage that way because their union gone sour, but not all marriage stories went into drain, there are marriages lasted and had a very happy ending. Marriage is a choice, so in order for us to avoid the Julia Roberts' movie "sleeping with the enemy", we must make a wise decision, after all nobody forces us to plunge into marriage, it is a free-will. I am lucky that up to now I am still single, so that I can decide wisely. Whatever happened to the marriages of other people, my own definition of falling in love and eventually get married did not change, I still believe that every one of us has capable of fulfilling the eternal myth, "..and they lived happily ever after".
@gtdonna (1740)
23 Nov 08
I so agree with you! No one forced us to make the choice, some makes it work for them through the good and bad, some choose to get out.
@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
21 Nov 08
oh my that is funny. One day i will soon be married and I do hope that this is not a ture saying for that will be very scary.So i refuse to believe this and no i don't believe. But maybe a husband can be your worst enemy if he is abusive to you, weather physical or mentally.
@gtdonna (1740)
23 Nov 08
Yes I would say if you marry someone and they end up being abusive to you, then indeed that is like lying down with your enemy because a person will eventually come to hate both the abuse as well as the situation