I hate my boyfriend for being too possesive

Philippines
November 20, 2008 11:14pm CST
Well my boyfriend and I will be having our second year aniversary this December 30, but I don't know if I could still keep up with him because he's too demanding... He's always invading my privacy.. I mean we're not even married and he's demanding too much from me.. like I should always return his text messages, I have to return his calls, I should always be the one visiting him.. but what about him??? he doesn't even do anything to keep up our relationship going,.. and He's the reason why my friend and I had a fight. he's too demanding and he's nagging me everytime we see each other... what should I do???
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5 responses
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
So have you actually talked to him about this?
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
sad to say yes,.. and He's blaming me for his own actions because he's always telling me that I'm ignoring him,.. but I'm not.. I'm studying and my parents disapproves with him,..
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
22 Nov 08
So what are you planning to do? Are you still planning to stay in such relationship?
@Anne18 (11029)
23 Nov 08
Well I hope since I'm very late in getting here that you have had some very good advice given to you. I think you ought to sit your boydriend down and expalian to him that you love him, want to be with him but this is driving a wedge betweeen you and may make you to part. Tell him that you can be trusted and you need to be apart from him for your relationship to grown and blossom. Hope this helps you a little bit
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Nov 08
I think he is not only very much possessive , he is very much selfish. he wants you to make it going and make all sacrifices. you can confront him and see what he has to say.
• India
21 Nov 08
all i feel to say is...no need celebrate the 2nd aniversary...just dump him....the way you tell about him he's not at all a perfect for anyone...
• United States
21 Nov 08
sounds like you need to dump him!! if he is making you miserable and being that controlling it will only get worse with time.. dont let the fact your shared 2 years together keep you together especially if he is treating you like crap and yet not working to keep the relationship.. dump him!